I want you to give your loved one a VERY sensual massage… But promise me that it will ONLY be a massage (nothing else!), if you know what I mean…

Why?

Because after a very intense week I want you to be completely prepared (physically and mentally) for Lovemaking.

I found a video that will help you with some great ideas for your sensual massage. I’m sure you will enjoy it…

Enjoy!

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Mind-Blowing Oral Sex In 5 Steps

Oral sex on her or cunnilingus is one sure-fire way to bring your woman to an orgasm. This is because many women reach their climaxes better and faster thru clitoral stimulation than through intercourse.

However, just like many things in a relationship, if you always apply the same techniques than just becomes a ‘routine’. And since any routine can become boring over time, your oral sex activities may not be as hot for her now as they used to be.

So what should you do? Surprise her tonight with some one-of-a-kind oral sex loving!

Today’s Sexercise – Oral Sex Like She’s Never Experienced Before

1. Go for extended foreplay tonight.

Most men know that oral sex is one of the fastest ways to make a woman wet. Tonight, simply take your time and make it your mission to not perform cunnilingus on her until she’s already wet and dying for you to go down on her! (Here’s the bonus part: since foreplay ‘conditions’ her mind to focus on sex, it would be easier and faster for you to bring her to an orgasm when you want to.)

2. Perform oral sex on her… while she still has her clothes on.

Notice that most women close their eyes while you go down on them. Well, somehow, you performing oral sex on her ‘under her skirt’ or ‘under the table’ fuels her imagination even more! This is because she can’t see you and never really knows just when your tongue will meet her body.

Here’s a situation you can try tonight. Flirt with her a bit to inject some sexual thoughts into her brain. While cooking dinner, tell her you want to see her in a skirt. You know, just ‘for a change’. Help with cooking so that she plays along with you.

Sit opposite each other on the table. Play footsie or run a hand up her thigh; keep the sexual tension going.

Now here’s the hot part, before, during or after dinner, go under the table; pull her a bit so that she sits lower/further down the chair. Spread her legs and work your magic. She’ll be gripping the sides of the table in no time!

3. DON’T go to bed… yet.

Resist the temptation to fall back on your ‘sex routine’ so don’t go to bed. Instead, lead her to the kitchen countertop or to a (strong) coffee table. Continue lavishing her with your oral sex techniques.

4. Don’t tire yourself out.

Of course, you don’t want to tire yourself out just as she’s getting more and more hot and turned on so give your tongue some reprieve with these tips.

• Use a vibrator. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with enlisting the help of a sex toy! Luckily for you, there are many different types of vibrators in the market now (e.g., anal vibrators, G-spot vibrators, clitoral vibrators, etc.) so simply pick your vibrator of choice. Again, it’s all up to you if you want to push her over the edge at this point or simply to continue the pleasure while giving your tongue a rest. If she does not have a vibrator…

• Use your fingers. Slowly penetrate her with your fingers and mimic the actions of your manhood. If you want to bring her to an orgasm, you can go for G-spot stimulation at this point. If not, simply continue the thrusting motion so that you can ‘rest’ a bit while still continuing to give her pleasure.

5. Bring her to her climax.

By this time, your partner must be dying for some release. Don’t deny her her explosive orgasm. Here are some techniques you can use to bring her over the edge.

• Spread her a little bit with your hands and with her clit exposed, go down and give it a quick little suck. Imagine her clit as the cake batter you’re licking and sucking off your pinky.

• Pop a cough drop in your mouth, suck on it a bit and then go back to licking her. Your ‘cool’ tongue on her swollen clitoris should give her an electrifying sensation!

• Roll your tongue like cylindrical tube and use it like your manhood, thrusting as far as you can inside her. While doing this, use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris.

Oral sex need not be ‘routine’ for you guys. It can be as hot, spontaneous, and wild as you want it to be. Practice the sexercises above and you’ll soon see how easy it is to uplift your sex lives with just a few changes in your oral sex activities.

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You can add romance and passion to your lives and stay within the confines of your budget, too. With some creativity and imagination, you can prepare some special time for you and your partner without having to spend your children’s college tuition!

As most of these are at-home dates, make sure the premises are yours and yours alone. Pack the kids off for the evening with relatives or friendly neighbors (and don’t forget to let them know you’ll reciprocate).

Now it’s time to be together for your budget date. But with what you’ll do to one another, it won’t feel like a cheap date…

Today’s Sexercise – Sexy ‘At Home’ Dates

Spend some time thinking about your date and planning for it. Maybe you’ll want to plan more than one date for the month. Whatever works with your lifestyle is fine.

What you will find, though, is that you don’t have to rob a bank (or be a wealthy banker, for that matter) to have a wonderful date with your lover.

Here are some suggestions for a hot, inexpensive good time.

1. Set a timer and slow dance with one another while naked. Add some fun to this by making it a game. For example, tell each other there will be no touching with hands until the music ends.

2. Make your lover a midnight snack and serve it in bed, using a tray with your best linen, plates and silverware. Make sure you’re naked when you serve it (remember – you’re the dessert).

3. Fasten around your lover’s waist a belt, length of fabric or part of an old shirt as tightly as you can. This feeling of being encased beneath clothing is highly arousing; and can lead to a great deal of anticipation of the evening to come.

4. Think about erotic gift certificates that will turn your partner on. This is a wonderful way to give – without spending any money! Some ideas include a year’s worth of sensual massage or a certificate offering to fulfill your lover’s deepest sexual fantasies for an entire evening.

5. Go to www.virtualflowers.com and send your lover a free virtual bouquet. Sign the card with a silly message like ‘Happy Arbor Day’ or ‘Happy Millard Fillmore’s Birthday’.

6. Along the ‘greeting card’ line, create your own homemade greeting card either on the computer or with scissors and paper. Inside the card, provide a hot and graphic description about what you plan to do with him or her during the night. Then the card into your partner’s lunch.

7. Dig out the Christmas lights and use them to light the bedroom.

8. Create an imaginary love potion from herb tea and flavorings. Tell your lover that drinking it makes you a love slave, committed to doing anything your ‘owner’ wishes. Or reverse roles by asking your lover to drink the potion and become your love slave.

9. Strip poker or strip rummy have been around forever, for a reason – they’re fun when it comes to love play. In this version, be sure to wear lots of clothes and strip them off slowly. This builds the anticipation as you reveal yourselves, inch by inch, to one another.

10. With your partner watching you, unplug the TV. Commit yourselves to an evening together, loving and being loved in all ways shapes and forms. Though this action sounds like a small thing, it really says a lot; namely that you’re willing to forgo external stimulation to give and receive pleasure.

11. Tune the clock radio to an easy-listening station and set it for 3:00 a.m. When it goes off, cuddle, snuggle and stroke; then see where it leads.

12. See how long you can tease your partner without him or her reaching orgasm. The effort not to come sometimes makes the sex all the more erotic. Try doing everything you can to drive your lover over the edge despite his or her best efforts.

13. Caress one another without using your hands. Women, use your breasts, feet and lips to turn him on. And men, your erect penis makes a fabulous tool for touching your lover without fingers.

14. Make a ‘Sex Partner Wanted’ ad and include all the things you’d really like your partner to do to you. Don’t be shy – this is the time to indulge in your wildest and hottest fantasies. Then let your lover pick one thing to do to you. Don’t forget to return the favor, though.

Basically, you don’t need a huge bank account to create a romantic, passionate date. It simply takes some ingenuity, creativity and a whole lot of willingness to indulge in some new ideas.

As far as women’s erogenous zones go, most men know that we just love having our breasts caressed. However, we women have many more areas that also enjoy being paid attention to. Learning where they are and how to pay useful attention to them will improve your lovemaking by leaps and bounds.

5 (Unexpected) Ways to Flip Her Switch

Give her neck some lovin’.

The neck is a serious erogenous zone for women. It’s right up there with breasts. But I am not suggesting you give your lady a hickey. Those went out with the high school prom. (If you do make a mistake and give just a little too much lovin’ to her neck and she woman ends up with a hickey, apologize profusely. Most women do not find humor in this and won’t appreciate having to hide the obvious “love bite” for up to a week.)

When you give special attention to the neck, do it lovingly and gently and with passion. Kiss her entire neck tenderly, and don’t forget the area behind and under her ears. Start out kissing the area gently and when she seems to get into it, you can take your “necking” to the next stage and kiss and nibble a little harder.

Kiss and linger… on her lips.

That’s right. I said kiss her. If you are in a long-term relationship or you are married, you likely forget to kiss your partner during lovemaking. This is one of the chief complaints that women have. We love to kiss and men too often forget our lips when making love.

Start with the lips and vary the speed and energy of the kiss. You can kiss her tenderly and then passionately. Then stop kissing her lips and kiss her eyes, her nose, her cheeks. Come back to the lips and kiss her passionately again while moving your hands all over her body. Then stop moving your hands and kiss her with focused intensity.

Trust me – she’ll love this. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to another lovemaking activity.

Pay attention to her fingers and toes.

For some reason, fingers and toes are extremely sensitive to kissing and sucking. If you combine this with stimulation in other parts of the body, it can be incredibly erotic.

Some women may actually prevent you from kissing or sucking her toes but that’s probably because she got caught off guard and is now self-conscious. As such, try to have an intimate shower together first. This way, when you move on to lovemaking in bed and you try to pay attention to her toes, she won’t hesitate and let you do the naughty things you plan to do.

Don’t ignore her ears.

First of all, do NOT stick a hard tongue into her ear! Few women enjoy this, even though men often think women do. Instead, take advantage of the sensitive nature of ears and play around with them. They are ultra-sensitive to touch so some gentle caressing and nibbling is often all you need to do to increase her passions.

Start by using your fingers to gently play with her ears, massaging the outer area and the earlobes. Kiss her around her ears, behind her ears and just under her ears. Don’t be afraid to moan quietly or make other noises in her ears – most women find this a huge turn-on. Finally, exhale gently into her ear. The feeling of your warm breath on her ear, combined with gentle nibbling, will flip her switch into overdrive!

Ok, let’s go back to breasts.

I know I mentioned that you should go beyond breasts but on this section, I want to inform you on how else you can caress her breasts to get more passion out of her.

Sure, women’s breasts are quiet sensitive (which is good for seduction purposes) but she must be ready for your more vigorous touches before you actually start doing them. Because men enjoy playing with breasts and women often enjoy it too, breasts actually end up getting shortchanged.

Here’s what I mean – if you give her breasts too much attention too soon, it doesn’t feel good. Breasts are loaded with nerve endings and all women have the same amount of nerve endings, so those with small breasts and those with large breasts all have the same potential for arousal.

When you first begin playing with her breasts, use a delicate hand. Begin touching her so lightly it almost seems to you that you’re not touching her at all. But trust us – she feels it. Kiss her breast, but not the nipple area. Kiss and caress just her areola to begin with, and then the underside of her breast. Keep caressing and kissing and every now and then, pull away or stop. Keep her wanting for more before you finally indulge and take her nipple into your mouth/

There you have it – five ways to really light her fire. Now go put out that flame!

Enjoy!

Sarah

P.S. Keep checking your email… I’ll be sending you amazing “sexercises” before the BIG day!