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Archive for June, 2008

29
Jun

6 Sinful Shower Games!

Posted in arousal, fantasy, foreplay  by Sarah

When was the last time you shared a long, luxurious bath or some quickie shower sex with your lover? Remember how excited, naughty and hot you guys felt? Well, bring that back on with these new and exciting tips for bath and shower games.

Making love in the bathroom brings a different dimension to sex. Your senses seem to be more alive. All of a sudden, you feel the burst of water from the shower head stronger, the scent of the soap or bath gel seems more potent, the body sponge seems to be coarser on your silky body… whew! aren’t these enough reasons to engage in sex games in the shower?!?

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Bath and Shower Sex Games 101

Bath and shower sex games depend a bit on what you have in your bathroom. For example, a big bathtub can allow for sex games (and sex positions) lying down, while a bubbling Jacuzzi can mean sex games involving, well, pulsating jets of water on certain body parts. But don’t worry, if you don’t have access to these, shower stalls bring on their own range of sex games!

First of all, enhance the mood inside the bathroom with a few simple elements. Light some candles, burn a bit of scented oil, you can even a portable CD-player and play some sensual music. Do what it takes to crate the perfect sexual environment.

Now on to our bath and shower sex games.

The Shower Sex Slave

In this game, you take the role of a slave, and your only purpose is to wash and clean the other. Start by undressing the ‘master’ and combing her hair to remove tangles. Next, work up a lather and start to gently scrub and wash her body. Of course, you need to clean EVERY crevice of her body. A good slave never misses a spot. Now, shampoo her hair and by this we mean not only the hair on top of her head.

As you bathe your ‘master’, feel free to tease every inch of her body. Remember, in this sex game, her whole body is fair game so feel free to touch, poke, caress, and others.

At this stage, it’s up to you guys where you want to go. You can proceed with lovemaking or change roles and you get to be ‘master’ now.

The Shower Cowgirl / Cowboy

This sex game involves the use of shower pistols. Feel free to aim and shoot at each and every erogenous zone on your partner’s body.

The White T-Shirt Contest

Okay, this sex game is more for your benefit. Ask your partner to shower with a flimsy white t-shirt on and just watch her as she gets wet under the shower. As her nipples get rock-hard under the shower head, start to play with yourself. Seeing you play with yourself should make her do the same with her body. When you guys can’t take it anymore, come together in what can only be described as wet and wild sex!

The Voyeur

There’s always a hint of the Peeping Tom in all of us. Bring this to the next level by engaging in foreplay in front of the bathroom mirror. Clear the bathroom counter and sit her on it. Start foreplay; all the while taking sneak peaks at each other on the mirror.

Peek-a-Boo

This one needs a bathtub where you guys can lie down or sit up. Make a perfect bath with lots of bubbles/suds. The point is to tease your partner with your manhood. As your erection gets bigger, it should ‘break the surface’ of the bubbles and thus be accessible to your partner. How she accesses it is up to her. She can use her mouth, hands, toes. When it’s your turn, the object of your attention is her erect and perky nipples.

Wheel of Steamy, Sex Fortune

The object of this game is to spin the wheel and do whatever sex activity or position the wheel indicates. Actually, you can purchase something like this from sex shops, which even come with suction cups so you can attach it on the bathroom wall or shower stall glass. You can also just make your own.

If you make your own, try to make one with two wheels. One that indicates time period (60 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, etc.) and one that holds a picture of the sex activity (e.g., French kissing, licking, deep throating, etc.) or sex position (man on top, woman on top, doggy style, etc.). Wherever the wheel stops, you guys must do whatever the image indicates for the time period the second wheel says.

Have fun!

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22
Jun

Enjoy A Sensual “Hot Stone” Massage!

Posted in foreplay, massage, tantric sex  by Sarah

I always tell my clients that a hot stone set for a hot stone massage is a great relationship investment! It’s a very relaxing ritual that you can perform on each other; and it also makes for great bonding time.

Anyway, with today’s hectic lifestyles, we all need a good massage every now and then right? But what if we combine a hot stone massage and a sexual massage? Wouldn’t that be a relaxing, yet seductive way to pleasure your partner? Of course it would be!

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How to Prepare a Sexual Hot Stone Massage

First off, you need a hot stone set. These stones come in different sizes and are meant to be used on different parts of the body. For instance, small stones can go between the toes while bigger ones can massage the legs. Even bigger one can be used for the back and front torso.

If budget is a concern, then buy a second-hand hot stone massage set. There are plenty online you can have delivered to your doorstep.

Of course, you would also have to prepare the ‘setting’ or massage room. It doesn’t have to be super fancy. One of my subscribers once mentioned that they never indulge in massages because they don’t have a massage table. Oh please! If there’s a will, there’s a way!

You can just drape towels on your bed and let that be the massage bed if you’re concerned about ruining your bed sheets. Some of my clients even prefer the bedroom floor! Just make sure you put a lot of thick, warm blankets on the floor and put tons of pillows!

As for the hot stones themselves, ensure that they are heated just to the right temperature. (Hot stone massage sets should come with a heater.) You wouldn’t want them to be too hot that you can’t hold them or that they scald your partner’s skin.

Of course, massage oil, music and lighting scented candles are a given. Here’s a tip: put the massage oil in the heater as well so that it’s warm too when you use it on your partner’s body.

Also, make sure the temperature in the room is warm as you should also be naked during the massage.

Sexual Hot Stone Massage Techniques

Ask your partner to lie down on her belly. Put a shawl or thin sheet over her back and lay a couple of hot stones on top of it, outlining her whole spine.

Now put some of that warm massage oil on your hands and rub her back legs. Grab two hot stones (one for each of your hands) and start massaging her legs. This will make her feel very warmed and relaxed.

Naughty tip 1: As you massage her back legs, nudge her legs apart bit by bit. Continue to massage her upper thighs, letting your warm and slick fingers brush against the back of her vagina.

Naughty tip 2: With the warm hot stones still in your hands, massage her buttocks. Massage in such a way that her bum cheeks are pulled slightly apart. Once her crack is exposed, lick her with your warm tongue.

Massage her feet and end by placing small hot stones between her toes.

Remove the hot stones outlining her spine and the sheet covering her back. Straddle her legs and massage her back with a new set of warmed hot stones. Massage her while letting your erect penis graze or lightly jab at her ass.

End the body massage with a body caress. Lean forward onto your partner and sensuously slide your body from side to side against her body. Rub your chest against her back and press your erect penis against her ass.

Do some very slight ‘push ups’ too. Simply raise yourself on your toes and arms and then slowly lower your whole body again on top of hers. After this, ask her to turn on her back.

Massage her front legs and feet with a new set of warm hot stones. Move to her upper torso, lavishing it with a generous amount of warm massage oil. Massage using a new set of warm hot stones.

Naughty tip 3: This is called ‘hot and cold’. Take a sip of VERY cold water or put a small ice chip in your mouth. Using your hands and the hot stones you’re holding, enclose one of her breasts, making sure her nipples are facing you. Lick or gently suck on her nipple.
The warmth of the hot stones on the sides of her breast combined with the coldness she feels on her nipples will both shock, please and maker her horny! Now the same on the other breast.

End the sexual massage by doing the ‘body caress’ again. This time will be even more exciting because you’re facing her!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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15
Jun

Sex Toys… For Men???

Posted in foreplay, libido, oral sex, sex, toys  by Sarah

You probably thought that oral sex is just all about your woman going down on you. Well, you’re wrong. Thanks to today’s ingenious sex toy manufacturers, there’s a range of naughty toys that SHE can use on you as well. Now, you may be ‘old-fashioned’ and not want to try them at all. But really, why not keep an open mind? For all you know, you might enjoy them!

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Pleasure Toys for Him

Masturbators

Masturbation or self-love may be though of as something to do alone but really it isn’t. A lot of couples get very turned on by seeing their partners play with themselves. Now, during oral sex on him or fellatio, masturbators can be an aid for her. For instance, all that action may be straining her jaw line. Stopping is out of the question because that would mean leaving you ‘out in the cold’ so why not use a masturbator.

A masturbator for men usually features vibrating and sucking actions. It replicates the feel and ‘actions’ of the female organ so it won’t be weird for you at all. You may be worried that a masturbator will make you come when you don’t want to. Actually, it’s not such a bad idea if you do. This way, you can ‘last longer’ by the time you guys to engage in intercourse.

Penis Rings

These sex toys are said to aid keep men’s erections for a longer period of time. Most rings are just placed at the base of his manhood but nowadays, they even come as a ‘set of rings’, where one is placed at the base of his penis, another is placed behind his jewels, and the other rings placed at different intervals of his erection.

Although it may ‘sound’ painful, men who’ve tried it say it’s very pleasurable. Furthermore, with the rings holding his erection up, and his partner performing oral sex at the tip of his manhood, many men swear they experience the best orgasms from such a ‘combo’.

Inflatable ‘Friends’

In movies, you often see a group of college boys teasing each other about their ‘inflatable partners’. Now that you’re all gown up, why not make try them for real? Today, there are plenty of inflatable dolls – some even resembling popular celebrities! – that you can purchase and use for you and your partners pleasure.

So how does this help in oral sex with your own partner? One of my subscribers say that they use it simply as an ‘extension’. For instance, after a period of oral sex and he’s still not ready to orgasm, yet his partner is already tiring and needing a break, he simply switches to the ‘friend’. This gives her a much-needed break while not breaking his momentum. And yes, having the ‘inflatable swinger’ is fun and has added spice to their sex life!

Tongue Vibrators

These vibrators are used to – you guessed it – provide almost non-stop vibrating pleasure. If she’s getting a bit tired, she can stop and use this to continue to stimulate your manhood. Many couples also find these gadgets a great way to provide ‘tongue action’ to his backdoor without her actually doing it.

Flavored Lubes and/or Condoms

Ok, not really a toy but more like an… aid. Although this may sound like more for her, flavored lubes and condoms are welcome additions during oral sex play for him too. There are various reasons for this.

- Because they taste good, flavored lubes and condoms usually make her really want to do oral sex on you. In fact, many men say that with the use of flavored lubes and condoms, they notice that their women are more into oral sex than without them.

- Flavored lubes can have a warming or heating agent; when applied on your manhood, you will feel a slightly tingly, yet pleasurable sensation, increasing pleasure from oral sex. Just be careful that you folks do not to put too much at the start. Too much ‘heat’ maybe more than he can bear, causing discomfort.

- Flavored condoms give partners peace of mind. Sexual diseases CAN be transferred during oral sex so the use of a flavored condom removes the anxiety, giving way to more uninhibited oral sex.

- It does give the whole room a sweet scent!

Oral sex toys help spice up any sexual encounter. Don’t look at them as a replacement for something. Just think of them as fun and pleasurable additions to great oral sex.

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8
Jun

8 Role-Playing Ideas For Your “Naughty” Movie!

If it takes you a while to convince your partner to agree to shoot a private, erotic video with you then you can hardly expect her to behave in ‘wild abandon’ during the lovemaking shoot. However, there are ways you can bring out that wild side of hers even if it’s your first time to shoot an x-rated video together. How? Try role-playing scenarios!

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X-Rated Video Role-playing Ideas You Can Try Tonight

Role-playing is a great way to enable your partner to get out of her shell and shed her shyness. This is because with role-playing, she gets to be ‘another person’ and as such will not be as reserved or inhibited on camera. Here are some of the most common role-playing scenarios lovers all over the world love to try!

Teacher/Student

In this scenario, take the dominating role. Let your partner be the student who needs to submit to you. Actually, this is good if she’s still shy as she only needs to follow whatever naughty thing you tell her to do. Furthermore, this scenario may be done outside the bedroom, like on the kitchen table or dining table or any sturdy table or desk, which ups the role-playing factor.

Service Worker/Housewife

This is another great role-playing idea to adapt if your partner still has a few inhibitions. You can play the cable guy or plumber, who simply wants to give a bored housewife the attention she deserves. For a wicked twist, DON’T tell your partner that you’ll be coming home in the middle of the day. (But of course, setup the video equipment beforehand.) Just knock on the door at 2 or 3 PM, catching your partner unawares and see where it goes!

Hooker or Stripper and Her Client

In this scenario, you can be the laid-back partner, and she the dominant one. This scenario can start with her entering the room and being all ‘slutty’ for you. She can then do a lap dance for you or do a pole dance routine using one of your bed posts! The nice part here is that she gets to wear sexy clothes or even put on a mask, which may help clear away any remaining inhibitions.

Top Model/Photographer

This scenario actually helps your partner to be more comfortable in front of the camera before you guys start lovemaking. Set up the scene like a real photo shoot, where she needs to pose in front of you and the camera. Slowly ask her to remove her clothes as the photo shoot progresses. You know what to do once she takes off her last piece of garment…

Masseuse/Client

This role-playing scenario is great as it paves the way for you (or her) to receive a sexual massage first! Just imagine her kneading your tight, tired muscles; using slick, perfumed massage oil all over your body, culminating on your genitals, and then just as you’re rock hard, she gets on top of you! I’m sure you can think of ways to return the favor…

Doctor/Patient

Probably one of the most common role-playing scenarios couples play is the doctor/patient one. Why? Well, imagine all the ‘examinations’ and ‘poking’ the doctor needs to do to all over you’re the patient to find out what’s wrong!

Soccer Star / Cheerleader

Do you both love to sport? If so, being the soccer stud secretly making love to the top cheer leader is a fantasy not far behind! You can even do this after going to the gym or after running together. Practical, huh?

Maid / Client

There’s something quite irresistible about illicit sex. Even though this will be make believe as you will be making love to each other, still, the thought of her as a hapless maid or house help trying to evade the advances of her employer only to give in, leaves a lot to a sexually active imagination! Start by having her on video as cleaning the bedroom and gradually walk into the bedroom yourself. Make sexual advances on her. She may refuse at the start or adopt a “I thought you’d never come” look and then see where this goes!

Another role-playing thing to try is of course bondage and dominatrix scenarios. You may want to try this out later on but for x-rated video beginners this may not be the right time for this. First you need to build your confidence and comfort in front of the camera and your trust in each other. Once you guys have improved on these fronts, then bondage and dominatrix games are great new things to further spice up your relationship.

Enjoy!

Sarah

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1
Jun

A few hot “lingerie” ideas for your loved one!

Hi! Sarah here.

I know it’s not Valentines… or Christmas (as the video mentions).

However now is ALSO a great time to buy your loved one hot and sexy lingerie!

(Important: There´s NOTHING sexier for a woman than getting new lingerie from her lover! She will pay you back in a veeeery nice way, trust me.)

Let the sensual AMY show you some of the sexiest ideas. Just watch the video below.

So get yourself comfortable, and ENJOY! :)

Sarah

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