Here’s 5 Naughty Ways to Flip Her Sex Switch

As far as women’s erogenous zones go, most men know that we just love having our breasts caressed. However, we women have many more areas that also enjoy being paid attention to. Learning where they are and how to pay useful attention to them will improve your lovemaking by leaps and bounds.

5 (Unexpected) Ways to Flip Her Switch

Give her neck some lovin’.

The neck is a serious erogenous zone for women. It’s right up there with breasts. But I am not suggesting you give your lady a hickey. Those went out with the high school prom. (If you do make a mistake and give just a little too much lovin’ to her neck and she woman ends up with a hickey, apologize profusely. Most women do not find humor in this and won’t appreciate having to hide the obvious “love bite” for up to a week.)

When you give special attention to the neck, do it lovingly and gently and with passion. Kiss her entire neck tenderly, and don’t forget the area behind and under her ears. Start out kissing the area gently and when she seems to get into it, you can take your “necking” to the next stage and kiss and nibble a little harder.

Kiss and linger… on her lips.

That’s right. I said kiss her. If you are in a long-term relationship or you are married, you likely forget to kiss your partner during lovemaking. This is one of the chief complaints that women have. We love to kiss and men too often forget our lips when making love.

Start with the lips and vary the speed and energy of the kiss. You can kiss her tenderly and then passionately. Then stop kissing her lips and kiss her eyes, her nose, her cheeks. Come back to the lips and kiss her passionately again while moving your hands all over her body. Then stop moving your hands and kiss her with focused intensity.

Trust me – she’ll love this. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to another lovemaking activity.

Pay attention to her fingers and toes.

For some reason, fingers and toes are extremely sensitive to kissing and sucking. If you combine this with stimulation in other parts of the body, it can be incredibly erotic.

Some women may actually prevent you from kissing or sucking her toes but that’s probably because she got caught off guard and is now self-conscious. As such, try to have an intimate shower together first. This way, when you move on to lovemaking in bed and you try to pay attention to her toes, she won’t hesitate and let you do the naughty things you plan to do.

Don’t ignore her ears.

First of all, do NOT stick a hard tongue into her ear! Few women enjoy this, even though men often think women do. Instead, take advantage of the sensitive nature of ears and play around with them. They are ultra-sensitive to touch so some gentle caressing and nibbling is often all you need to do to increase her passions.

Start by using your fingers to gently play with her ears, massaging the outer area and the earlobes. Kiss her around her ears, behind her ears and just under her ears. Don’t be afraid to moan quietly or make other noises in her ears – most women find this a huge turn-on. Finally, exhale gently into her ear. The feeling of your warm breath on her ear, combined with gentle nibbling, will flip her switch into overdrive!

Ok, let’s go back to breasts.

I know I mentioned that you should go beyond breasts but on this section, I want to inform you on how else you can caress her breasts to get more passion out of her.

Sure, women’s breasts are quiet sensitive (which is good for seduction purposes) but she must be ready for your more vigorous touches before you actually start doing them. Because men enjoy playing with breasts and women often enjoy it too, breasts actually end up getting shortchanged.

Here’s what I mean – if you give her breasts too much attention too soon, it doesn’t feel good. Breasts are loaded with nerve endings and all women have the same amount of nerve endings, so those with small breasts and those with large breasts all have the same potential for arousal.

When you first begin playing with her breasts, use a delicate hand. Begin touching her so lightly it almost seems to you that you’re not touching her at all. But trust us – she feels it. Kiss her breast, but not the nipple area. Kiss and caress just her areola to begin with, and then the underside of her breast. Keep caressing and kissing and every now and then, pull away or stop. Keep her wanting for more before you finally indulge and take her nipple into your mouth/

There you have it – five ways to really light her fire. Now go put out that flame!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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