One of the reasons to include sex games in your relationship is to increase excitement and to remove boredom or prevent anything in your relationship from reaching ‘routine status’. As such, you should always be on the lookout for more, new and exciting sex games to try with your lover. And for that you need not go far, simply read on and see which one you want to try tonight, and which ones you want to save for later.

Daring Sex Games to Push Excitement and Intimacy to the Next Level

HONEY, I LIKE SPORTS TOO

Sports and sex: what a lethal combination! If your partner is one who’s not into sports as you are, then this sex game is a great way for her to take part in your love for the sport too. Start by agreeing on a sport that you both will watch. Assign different teams to each other.

List down several sexual activities; each one increasing in naughtiness and heat level as the last. Watch the game together and list down each team’s scores. At the end of the game, the team/partner with the highest score wins! The loser needs to carry out ALL of the sexual activities listed by the winner.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Instead of waiting for the game to end, cash in your points each time your team scores something.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Carry out this sex game while having family and friends over! During each break, sneak off to the bedroom or bathroom and start collecting your winning points!

FIND YOUR PLEASURE

List down the Top 5 things that you know your lover just absolutely loves you performing on her. Don’t be shy to list down things that really make her crazy and shout! Turn these things into five sex coupons and hide it in different places of your bedroom. Tonight, tell her that she needs to go on a massive sex coupon hunt.

As she searches in the room, say if she’s ‘hotter’ or ‘colder’ as she comes close or far to a sex coupon. Whatever coupon she finds, you must do the deed listed on the coupon!

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Use a timer and set this to 30 seconds or 1 minute. Your partner should find as many sex coupons as she can in that time. Whatever she finds, you must do whatever’s listed on the coupons found.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Don’t list various sexual activities on the coupons, list down sex positions instead. Another tip is not to indicate this in words but in pictures. Cut out (or download from the internet and print out) some really hot sex positions and paste this on the sex coupons.

TRUTH OR DARE

This is a sexualized version of this popular game. Tonight, make sure you’re alone at home. After a nice, sexy, romantic dinner, turn down the lights, light some scented candles and play some soft, sexy music.

Take of all your clothes and sit across each other on the floor or bed, and then play the traditional Turn or Dare game. This time, however, only questions concerning sexual activities are allowed. Use this opportunity to really know your lover and help her bring out your sexual fantasies to life. For example, you can ask questions like “what public place would really like to try and have sex?”, “what sexual fantasy do you want to try tonight”?

BLINDFOLD ME

In this sex game, you’re blindfolded by your lover and she gets to put some lotion or scented oil all over your body. (Stuff like chocolate, honey, or whipped cream is also allowed.) She then starts to touch a part of your body with something (a feather, cotton ball, her tongue, etc.) and then you have to guess what she’s using to touch you. If you guess correctly, you can demand a sexual activity from her. If you guess wrong, she gets to ask a sexual activity from you.

THE ONE-NIGHT STAND

Role-playing is very much a part of many sex games. It’s a great way to break down any shyness on your or her part because a part of you thinks that it’s not really you engaging in that sexual act anyway. One favorite sex game of many couples is to role-play the one nigh stand affair.

Don’t plan this one. Just email, call or send a message to your partner that you plan to eat out tonight and if he/she can meet you at this pub or bar later. (You can decide to meet at a real sleazy bar.) Don’t give anything else away.

Once you meet at the pub, act like you’re someone else and try to ‘pick her up’ from the bar. If she’s game, she’ll easily pick up your hints and play along. Now, move on and DON’T go home. Go to a motel or hotel room and do the deed!

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When was the last time you shared a long, luxurious bath or some quickie shower sex with your lover? Remember how excited, naughty and hot you guys felt? Well, bring that back on with these new and exciting tips for bath and shower games.

Making love in the bathroom brings a different dimension to sex. Your senses seem to be more alive. All of a sudden, you feel the burst of water from the shower head stronger, the scent of the soap or bath gel seems more potent, the body sponge seems to be coarser on your silky body… whew! aren’t these enough reasons to engage in sex games in the shower?!?

Bath and Shower Sex Games 101

Bath and shower sex games depend a bit on what you have in your bathroom. For example, a big bathtub can allow for sex games (and sex positions) lying down, while a bubbling Jacuzzi can mean sex games involving, well, pulsating jets of water on certain body parts. But don’t worry, if you don’t have access to these, shower stalls bring on their own range of sex games!

First of all, enhance the mood inside the bathroom with a few simple elements. Light some candles, burn a bit of scented oil, you can even a portable CD-player and play some sensual music. Do what it takes to crate the perfect sexual environment.

Now on to our bath and shower sex games.

The Shower Sex Slave

In this game, you take the role of a slave, and your only purpose is to wash and clean the other. Start by undressing the ‘master’ and combing her hair to remove tangles. Next, work up a lather and start to gently scrub and wash her body. Of course, you need to clean EVERY crevice of her body. A good slave never misses a spot. Now, shampoo her hair and by this we mean not only the hair on top of her head.

As you bathe your ‘master’, feel free to tease every inch of her body. Remember, in this sex game, her whole body is fair game so feel free to touch, poke, caress, and others.

At this stage, it’s up to you guys where you want to go. You can proceed with lovemaking or change roles and you get to be ‘master’ now.

The Shower Cowgirl / Cowboy

This sex game involves the use of shower pistols. Feel free to aim and shoot at each and every erogenous zone on your partner’s body.

The White T-Shirt Contest

Okay, this sex game is more for your benefit. Ask your partner to shower with a flimsy white t-shirt on and just watch her as she gets wet under the shower. As her nipples get rock-hard under the shower head, start to play with yourself. Seeing you play with yourself should make her do the same with her body. When you guys can’t take it anymore, come together in what can only be described as wet and wild sex!

The Voyeur

There’s always a hint of the Peeping Tom in all of us. Bring this to the next level by engaging in foreplay in front of the bathroom mirror. Clear the bathroom counter and sit her on it. Start foreplay; all the while taking sneak peaks at each other on the mirror.

Peek-a-Boo

This one needs a bathtub where you guys can lie down or sit up. Make a perfect bath with lots of bubbles/suds. The point is to tease your partner with your manhood. As your erection gets bigger, it should ‘break the surface’ of the bubbles and thus be accessible to your partner. How she accesses it is up to her. She can use her mouth, hands, toes. When it’s your turn, the object of your attention is her erect and perky nipples.

Wheel of Steamy, Sex Fortune

The object of this game is to spin the wheel and do whatever sex activity or position the wheel indicates. Actually, you can purchase something like this from sex shops, which even come with suction cups so you can attach it on the bathroom wall or shower stall glass. You can also just make your own.

If you make your own, try to make one with two wheels. One that indicates time period (60 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, etc.) and one that holds a picture of the sex activity (e.g., French kissing, licking, deep throating, etc.) or sex position (man on top, woman on top, doggy style, etc.). Wherever the wheel stops, you guys must do whatever the image indicates for the time period the second wheel says.

Have fun!

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If it takes you a while to convince your partner to agree to shoot a private, erotic video with you then you can hardly expect her to behave in ‘wild abandon’ during the lovemaking shoot. However, there are ways you can bring out that wild side of hers even if it’s your first time to shoot an x-rated video together. How? Try role-playing scenarios!

X-Rated Video Role-playing Ideas You Can Try Tonight

Role-playing is a great way to enable your partner to get out of her shell and shed her shyness. This is because with role-playing, she gets to be ‘another person’ and as such will not be as reserved or inhibited on camera. Here are some of the most common role-playing scenarios lovers all over the world love to try!

Teacher/Student

In this scenario, take the dominating role. Let your partner be the student who needs to submit to you. Actually, this is good if she’s still shy as she only needs to follow whatever naughty thing you tell her to do. Furthermore, this scenario may be done outside the bedroom, like on the kitchen table or dining table or any sturdy table or desk, which ups the role-playing factor.

Service Worker/Housewife

This is another great role-playing idea to adapt if your partner still has a few inhibitions. You can play the cable guy or plumber, who simply wants to give a bored housewife the attention she deserves. For a wicked twist, DON’T tell your partner that you’ll be coming home in the middle of the day. (But of course, setup the video equipment beforehand.) Just knock on the door at 2 or 3 PM, catching your partner unawares and see where it goes!

Hooker or Stripper and Her Client

In this scenario, you can be the laid-back partner, and she the dominant one. This scenario can start with her entering the room and being all ‘slutty’ for you. She can then do a lap dance for you or do a pole dance routine using one of your bed posts! The nice part here is that she gets to wear sexy clothes or even put on a mask, which may help clear away any remaining inhibitions.

Top Model/Photographer

This scenario actually helps your partner to be more comfortable in front of the camera before you guys start lovemaking. Set up the scene like a real photo shoot, where she needs to pose in front of you and the camera. Slowly ask her to remove her clothes as the photo shoot progresses. You know what to do once she takes off her last piece of garment…

Masseuse/Client

This role-playing scenario is great as it paves the way for you (or her) to receive a sexual massage first! Just imagine her kneading your tight, tired muscles; using slick, perfumed massage oil all over your body, culminating on your genitals, and then just as you’re rock hard, she gets on top of you! I’m sure you can think of ways to return the favor…

Doctor/Patient

Probably one of the most common role-playing scenarios couples play is the doctor/patient one. Why? Well, imagine all the ‘examinations’ and ‘poking’ the doctor needs to do to all over you’re the patient to find out what’s wrong!

Soccer Star / Cheerleader

Do you both love to sport? If so, being the soccer stud secretly making love to the top cheer leader is a fantasy not far behind! You can even do this after going to the gym or after running together. Practical, huh?

Maid / Client

There’s something quite irresistible about illicit sex. Even though this will be make believe as you will be making love to each other, still, the thought of her as a hapless maid or house help trying to evade the advances of her employer only to give in, leaves a lot to a sexually active imagination! Start by having her on video as cleaning the bedroom and gradually walk into the bedroom yourself. Make sexual advances on her. She may refuse at the start or adopt a “I thought you’d never come” look and then see where this goes!

Another role-playing thing to try is of course bondage and dominatrix scenarios. You may want to try this out later on but for x-rated video beginners this may not be the right time for this. First you need to build your confidence and comfort in front of the camera and your trust in each other. Once you guys have improved on these fronts, then bondage and dominatrix games are great new things to further spice up your relationship.

Enjoy!

Sarah

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You can add romance and passion to your lives and stay within the confines of your budget, too. With some creativity and imagination, you can prepare some special time for you and your partner without having to spend your children’s college tuition!

As most of these are at-home dates, make sure the premises are yours and yours alone. Pack the kids off for the evening with relatives or friendly neighbors (and don’t forget to let them know you’ll reciprocate).

Now it’s time to be together for your budget date. But with what you’ll do to one another, it won’t feel like a cheap date…

Today’s Sexercise – Sexy ‘At Home’ Dates

Spend some time thinking about your date and planning for it. Maybe you’ll want to plan more than one date for the month. Whatever works with your lifestyle is fine.

What you will find, though, is that you don’t have to rob a bank (or be a wealthy banker, for that matter) to have a wonderful date with your lover.

Here are some suggestions for a hot, inexpensive good time.

1. Set a timer and slow dance with one another while naked. Add some fun to this by making it a game. For example, tell each other there will be no touching with hands until the music ends.

2. Make your lover a midnight snack and serve it in bed, using a tray with your best linen, plates and silverware. Make sure you’re naked when you serve it (remember – you’re the dessert).

3. Fasten around your lover’s waist a belt, length of fabric or part of an old shirt as tightly as you can. This feeling of being encased beneath clothing is highly arousing; and can lead to a great deal of anticipation of the evening to come.

4. Think about erotic gift certificates that will turn your partner on. This is a wonderful way to give – without spending any money! Some ideas include a year’s worth of sensual massage or a certificate offering to fulfill your lover’s deepest sexual fantasies for an entire evening.

5. Go to www.virtualflowers.com and send your lover a free virtual bouquet. Sign the card with a silly message like ‘Happy Arbor Day’ or ‘Happy Millard Fillmore’s Birthday’.

6. Along the ‘greeting card’ line, create your own homemade greeting card either on the computer or with scissors and paper. Inside the card, provide a hot and graphic description about what you plan to do with him or her during the night. Then the card into your partner’s lunch.

7. Dig out the Christmas lights and use them to light the bedroom.

8. Create an imaginary love potion from herb tea and flavorings. Tell your lover that drinking it makes you a love slave, committed to doing anything your ‘owner’ wishes. Or reverse roles by asking your lover to drink the potion and become your love slave.

9. Strip poker or strip rummy have been around forever, for a reason – they’re fun when it comes to love play. In this version, be sure to wear lots of clothes and strip them off slowly. This builds the anticipation as you reveal yourselves, inch by inch, to one another.

10. With your partner watching you, unplug the TV. Commit yourselves to an evening together, loving and being loved in all ways shapes and forms. Though this action sounds like a small thing, it really says a lot; namely that you’re willing to forgo external stimulation to give and receive pleasure.

11. Tune the clock radio to an easy-listening station and set it for 3:00 a.m. When it goes off, cuddle, snuggle and stroke; then see where it leads.

12. See how long you can tease your partner without him or her reaching orgasm. The effort not to come sometimes makes the sex all the more erotic. Try doing everything you can to drive your lover over the edge despite his or her best efforts.

13. Caress one another without using your hands. Women, use your breasts, feet and lips to turn him on. And men, your erect penis makes a fabulous tool for touching your lover without fingers.

14. Make a ‘Sex Partner Wanted’ ad and include all the things you’d really like your partner to do to you. Don’t be shy – this is the time to indulge in your wildest and hottest fantasies. Then let your lover pick one thing to do to you. Don’t forget to return the favor, though.

Basically, you don’t need a huge bank account to create a romantic, passionate date. It simply takes some ingenuity, creativity and a whole lot of willingness to indulge in some new ideas.

Just like many things surrounding sex and its pleasures, masturbation or self-love has gone on to have bad name. Masturbation is often seen as a taboo and admitting to it seems to indicate that there’s something wrong with you.

On the contrary, masturbating is common, natural, and most of all, it’s healthy for you!

So why not indulge in some selfless self-love? It can be good for you, and it might just be what your sex life needs right now.

IMPORTANT: Masturbation doesn´t mean doing it on your own! You can enjoy self-pleasure with your woman (it´s a great turn on for both of you).

With that said, let´s get started…

Here’s Why You Should Indulge and Masturbate…

It’s NORMAL to masturbate.

If you stop and think about it, what’s wrong with pleasuring yourself? You’re not cheating on your sex partner (actually you can do it with her, as I explained). So this is not infidelity. Besides, your sex drive may be higher than your sex partner so masturbating is just an easy, natural way to even out the sexual need differences between the two of you.

The only important thing to remember is this: masturbation should not evolve into being the ONLY thing that can bring you to a climax. Meaning, if you can’t have sex with your partner anymore because you’re more interested in self-love, then THAT is a problem in your relationship and you need to address this intimacy issue with your partner. Masturbating will not help there.

However, if masturbation is recreational and is simply just one of those things that enable you to have a joyful sex life, then by all means, go for it!

Masturbation helps get rid of stress.

Today’s hectic lifestyles mean we get stressed often. And sometimes, this stress can be easily alleviated by simply engaging in a healthy dose of masturbation.

If you’re having such a day, here’s what you can do (all these tips can be done on-your-own or with your partner):

Tip #1. Have a long, hot soak in the tub or take a hot shower. When you reach for the shampoo, conditioner, or what not and you feel like pleasuring yourself. Give in. You’ll feel refreshed from the shower and relaxed from the release.

Tip #2. Get an x-rated magazine and lock yourself for a few minutes in a room. You can also take a few minutes and watch some naughty videos.

Tip #3. If you have a healthy imagination, simply go to quiet place and be alone for a while. Close your eyes and let your imagination go from naughty to wild. Reach down and pleasure yourself for release.

Masturbation improves your health.

Here’s one thing that you should not forget the next time you feel that masturbation is ‘sinful’ – self-love is good for your health!

• It gets rid of headaches and helps improve your mood. Studies show that self-love results in the release of mood elevating hormones that can ban away headaches and basically lift your spirits so you end up feeling happier.

• It gets rid of sexual tension and helps with emotional development. We all don’t have the same desires when it comes to sex. For instance, If you want to try a certain sex position and your partner absolutely does not want to, this can cause sexual tension physically. Masturbation can at least give you the release you physically need.

Self-love is also good for emotional development because by engaging in healthy masturbation you get a chance to learn more about yourself; what really turns you on and what doesn’t. This information can then be used by you or relayed to your sex partner so that you can prevent instances of premature ejaculation.

• Its good for your prostate. If you don’t release prostate fluid, it’s going to stay there and, simply put, ‘block your pipe’. Studies show that prostate fluid actually has 3-methylcholanthrene, the same carcinogen that one finds in cigarette smoke. As such, you’re really doing yourself a world of good by ejecting seminal fluids as often as you can. At the very least, keeping seminal fluid can lead to urinary and ejaculatory pain.

It can be quite hard to embrace masturbation as a good thing especially if it’s always been deemed a shameful and sinful habit for centuries. However, as in most things, ignorance can lead to a lot of problems and stress in your daily life and sex life.

Stop trying to view masturbation as a bad thing and start viewing it as a simple, natural and healthy inclination… that just so happens to be sexual in nature.

So please… promise me that you will enjoy a moment of self-love on your own or with your partner TODAY!

Enjoy honey…

Sarah

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Performance anxiety is commonly misinterpreted as “stage fright”, but there is a reason for it. It has been stated, that “the whole world is a stage” and we are willing or unwilling participants in it. Performing artists like musicians, singers, actors and speakers have faced this enemy during their careers and braved them one way or another.

But this enemy is very common in human relationships too and particularly ferocious when it comes to sex. Men face this enemy every time they are about to have sex and there is one reason which makes this anxiety almost unbearable: will I last long enough to satisfy my partner?

How to Make Sure You Don’t Orgasm Before She Does

1. Prolong the foreplay.

Instead of plowing away once the sex really gets going, take your time to caress your partner and explore her body with your other extremities. While the male organ seems to be the only arousal point on a man’s body, women have these sensitive areas all over the place.

Her reaction to your probing will give you a fairly good idea where they are. While she approaches ecstasy with your every successful exploration, you not only learn your partner’s secret areas, but also preserve your own stamina for the final battle.

2. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what turns her on.

Conversation is a very important part of the whole sexual experience. This time though, you want to encourage her to tell you what REALLY turns her on. Clever sexual innuendos during pre-sex time and gentle inquiries during sex not only give you vital information, but stimulate your partner’s fantasy, which makes her hornier, which makes her reach her orgasm faster! Just before you reach your own…

3. Oral sex

Spicing things up by pleasuring or “heating up” your partner with oral stimulation gives you time to breath. While orally satisfying a woman is requiring a keen ear to your partner’s needs and leads, it may be the last resort for your premature curtain call. It is not a solution to “take a break” during sex. While it may help you, you probably will have to start with your partner from square one. Switching to oral sex gives you the needed break without interrupting your partner’s pleasure cruise.

4. Know your own body.

Japanese Geisha’s are known to be able to bring a man to ecstasy without having him prematurely end the fun. If they can do that, you can too IF you know your own body.

Knowing your body’s primary arousal points can help you last longer if you avoid… for now. Another trick is to squeeze the base of your shaft right before the Big Ben strikes ten on the top and the bottom side. If you do it right, it stops you cold.

A good physical condition is also helpful in enduring the physical task of keeping it up longer; do not underestimate your muscles’ participation in your endurance quest. Ask your partner to assist you in this self-discovery and sex will never get boring.

5. An honest and open relationship.

Tell your partner about your anxiety and let her know that you want to last longer to give her more pleasure. While this is most of the time not possible when you are in bed for the first time with a new partner, once you are an item and sex gets to be a somewhat regular pastime, honesty is the way to go.

6. If it all fails, do it again!

Leonardo Da Vinci’s first painting was not the Mona Lisa and even when he was painting the masterpiece he did not get it right the first time. Multiple layers have been discovered by x-ray technology procedures, documenting that even the Master himself needed several tries to get it right.

By exploring your own limits and practicing as often as you both feel like will lead to more confidence, more pleasure, more mutual acceptance and trust, and ultimately more endurance and better sex for both of you.

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Why is it that watching porn is such a guilty pleasure? You like watching it and it excites you but at the same time you have this nagging feeling that you’re doing something wrong. Well, change your mindset because watching porn can actually be good for you and your relationship with your partner!

Here’s Why Porn is So Good for You…

Sex Therapy. We have many hang ups when it comes to sex and sometimes, you may want to try something new and exciting that you just can’t even mention to your lover for fear of being ridiculed and rejected. By watching porn, you simply get rid of this naughty thought out of your system. True, it may not be the same as performing the sex position or sex idea yourself, but at least you get to ‘live it’ in a different way. As a result, it’s no longer a constantly nagging thought in your head.

Sex Education. Despite what you may want to believe, you’re probably not the hot stud you think of yourself between the sheets. You often hear it said that men do not know how to pleasure women, right? Well then, grab a couple of porn videos and see for yourself just how these hot studs pleasure their women in front of the camera… for hours! I guarantee, after just watching a couple of porn videos, you’ll walk away with tips to pleasure her like never before. You bet you’ll score a lot of sex points with that!

Sex Drive Overload. Is your relationship reaching a certain sexual plateau? This is normal. The trick, however, is not to let this plateau stretch for ages because if you do, you’ll wake up one fine day and wonder why you and your partner hardly ever have sex anymore. A healthy, sexual relationship is a work in progress. Do your share in keeping the sex alive by constantly finding hot, new, sexy ways to make love. And one sure-fire way of achieving this is to… yes, watch porn!

Go Ahead… Watch Porn Tonight!

Step 1. If you want to watch porn with your partner tonight, keep in mind that the worse thing you can do is spring a surprise on her! What you should do is sort of set the stage so your sex partner is more willing to watch porn with you. How? First, start with foreplay. You can do this days in advance or just at the start of the day when you plan to watch porn together. Simply do things that increase the sexual tension between you like touching her ‘inappropriately’ or sending a dirty joke or dirty short story to her mobile phone or email.

Step 2. Rent a porn video. You can watch porn online or you may even have a subscription to a porn channel but these are often just snippets of porn. If you rent a porn video, then this may revolve around a ‘story’ and women love that! Because it’s presented as a ‘love story’, your lover will be less against watching the actual porn stuff.

Also, be sure to pick a porn video that’s not too wild for her. For instance, if you know she’s dead set against certain sex positions or bondage, this is NOT the time to try and persuade her to trying it. Remember, small steps…

Step 3. Before you watch the porn video together, make sure other elements at home are set up right as well. For instance, dim the lights, light some candles. If you have kids, make sure they’re spending the night with their grandparents. In short, make sure that there’s nothing that will hinder you guys watching porn tonight.

Step 4. Watching porn obviously makes the watchers horny and don’t be shy in communicating that that’s exactly what you’re feeling while she’s beside you. Just be subtle. No need to grab her; just make small innuendos like rubbing your front or trying to graze her breast. Trust me, she’ll get the idea.

Step 5. Lastly, be prepared with protection. Nothing can be more annoying than finding yourselves wanting to have sex… and can’t.

Watching porn is not bad. It’s just something that society finds quite hard to grasp. But if it’s working wonders for YOUR sex life, why fight it? Instead, use it! It’s better to have a striving sex life than not to have one at all.

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I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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Sarah

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If it is politically correct to say diamonds are a woman’s best friend, would it be right to say that aphrodisiacs are a man’s best friend?

One of the biggest challenges for guys when it comes to sex is how to ensure that his woman is also in the mood for it. What usually happens is this: you want sex and she, for some reason, doesn’t. However, instead of getting sexually frustrated - or worse, try to force her! - why not enlist the help of a few aphrodisiacs?

No need to go exotic and spend a gargantuan amount of money. Try these ‘natural’ aphrodisiacs to set her in the right mood without going through too much hassle.

Balut

Balut, the popular delicacy of most Filipinos, is actually a fertilized duck that has a developed embryo inside. The egg is boiled and is enjoyed with a pinch of salt and a couple of drops of vinegar. And because a lot of men testify to its astonishing effects, plus its affordability compared to other forms of aphrodisiacs, the balut has become a popular street food in Asian countries. However, thanks to the wonders of exports, you can probably find balut in any Asian grocery store near you.

If you don’t want to try this now, then don’t forget about it when you and your woman are on a trip in Asia. It’s worth a try!

Ginseng

Ginseng is a genus of 11 species of perennial plants with fleshy roots. They grow in China, Asia, Korea and Siberia. Normally, ginseng is used as nourishing stimulants and as treatment of Type II Diabetes. It’s also widely used in vitamins and food supplements for men. But since its discovery, only lately has its most significant use been adopted. That is, it’s undoubted role in men’s sexual prowess. In fact, according to a 2002 study, both Asian and American forms of ginseng markedly increased libido levels of animals, thus improving their sexual performance.

If your woman drinks a lot of tea already, then switching to one that is ginger-flavored is not a bad idea. A few dishes cooked with a lot of ginger is also nice. Just don’t serve a plateful of raw ginger! I assure you, any ‘hotness’ from this will not lead to sex!

Honey

Honey is a sweet viscous liquid that can actually bring sex performance to higher levels and make your “honey” beg you for more. Coming from the nectar of flowers, honey is a mixture mainly of sugars and other compounds like fructose and glucose. The nitric oxide in it is also known to open up blood vessels and stimulate erection. This may sound like an aphrodisiac for you rather than for her… but an obviously erect penis works wonders for us women as well!

Besides, honey can be ‘consumed’ in many ways right? So why not spread a bit of honey on your ‘honey’? Lick away! Lick away! Lick away!

Oats

Who says oats are only for dieters? Oats work as well in letting out the real man in you. Among the sources of aphrodisiacs, this is the most affordable one. In recent studies, the power of oats has been seen to significantly race the level of testosterone in men. Think it’s impossible? Try it!

Oysters

La Trelle Spencer in White Chicks said that oysters are an aphrodisiac. And yes it’s true! It’s been found that oysters are rich in certain amino acids that notably increase the levels of sex hormones. You may also want to add some spice to your oysters as spice can lead to increased heart rate and sometimes even sweating. These are responses similar to the ones you feel when you’re ‘getting it on’. So once you smell your honey cooking up some grilled oysters, you know what’s going to happen next!

Peanut Butter

Peanut butter lovers certainly will love to read this. This lovely snack can actually increase the desire for sex! It is rich in Vitamin B1 and Vitamin E, which is also called the “sexuality vitamin”.

And here’s a naughty tip you can try! Make sure your woman is sitting somewhere, say on the sofa, dinner chair, whatever! Then go ala Elvis and get a banana. Half-peel this and smear the top with peanut butter. No, position the half-peeled banana directly in front of your penis (and facing her face!). Approach your woman and, WITHOUT LAUGHING, ask her to taste your banana. If she doesn’t get horny from this, I don’t know what will!

Indeed, nature has everything to offer. What more could you ask for? Delicious aphrodisiac foods that are very affordable. All you have to do is learn these tricks and remember that hot sex doesn’t depend on how much aphrodisiac you eat but in the love that you put in it.

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