Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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Sarah

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In my line of work, I hear people complain a great deal about their sex lives. Men, like yourself, come to me and ask how they can improve their performance in the bedroom. And I always ask the same question: How is your communication?

Now I’m not asking about whether or not she’s calling out your name while you’re on top of her. What I mean is how is your communication outside the bedroom! Most of the time, I get blank looks and guys saying that they don’t understand what one has to do with the other.

And, you see, that’s the real key to the problem. As a woman, I understand how important communication is not just to the health of the relationship in general but also in how easy it is for us to “get off” in the bedroom. Sure, women can enjoy a quick romp with a stranger just like a guy can, but when we’re looking for more than a cheap thrill we need to feel a deeper connection with our partners and that’s only created through communication.

You probably won’t be surprised by this news but your lover and you don’t communicate in the same way. Different things are important to both of you and there’s nothing wrong with that, but you’ve got to know how to get beyond those differences and bridge that communication gap which is so common in relationships.

Let me give you a perfect example. Men don’t necessarily see the importance of looking at a person who is talking. In fact, if they’re with the guys, too much eye contact just feels a little uncomfortable. Women need that eye contact as a non-verbal signal that you are paying attention to what she has to say and that you feel she is important. It’s not whether or not you are paying attention to her; it’s really about making her feel like she’s your number one priority.

When women don’t feel important, they don’t feel as open and that’s bad in the bedroom. To really get to the heights of pleasure, you both need to be open to each other and feel good about your relationship. Otherwise, it’s just not going to happen.

Actually, another example of a communication problem is how one partner suggests sex. Guys are pretty forward. If they’re in the mood for love, then they just come right out and ask or start making pretty obvious overtures. That’s a real turn off for women sometimes, plus women can’t flip their arousal switch on nearly as fast as a man can. So while she may be pretty turned on a little later, being asked for sex isn’t going to make that happen. Instead, you need to take the initiative and start working up to the sex with some playful touching, a little kissing, and more fondling. When done correctly, Guys, you won’t even have to ask the question: she’ll be leading YOU into the bedroom instead of vice versa.

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