One of the reasons to include sex games in your relationship is to increase excitement and to remove boredom or prevent anything in your relationship from reaching ‘routine status’. As such, you should always be on the lookout for more, new and exciting sex games to try with your lover. And for that you need not go far, simply read on and see which one you want to try tonight, and which ones you want to save for later.

Daring Sex Games to Push Excitement and Intimacy to the Next Level

HONEY, I LIKE SPORTS TOO

Sports and sex: what a lethal combination! If your partner is one who’s not into sports as you are, then this sex game is a great way for her to take part in your love for the sport too. Start by agreeing on a sport that you both will watch. Assign different teams to each other.

List down several sexual activities; each one increasing in naughtiness and heat level as the last. Watch the game together and list down each team’s scores. At the end of the game, the team/partner with the highest score wins! The loser needs to carry out ALL of the sexual activities listed by the winner.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Instead of waiting for the game to end, cash in your points each time your team scores something.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Carry out this sex game while having family and friends over! During each break, sneak off to the bedroom or bathroom and start collecting your winning points!

FIND YOUR PLEASURE

List down the Top 5 things that you know your lover just absolutely loves you performing on her. Don’t be shy to list down things that really make her crazy and shout! Turn these things into five sex coupons and hide it in different places of your bedroom. Tonight, tell her that she needs to go on a massive sex coupon hunt.

As she searches in the room, say if she’s ‘hotter’ or ‘colder’ as she comes close or far to a sex coupon. Whatever coupon she finds, you must do the deed listed on the coupon!

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Use a timer and set this to 30 seconds or 1 minute. Your partner should find as many sex coupons as she can in that time. Whatever she finds, you must do whatever’s listed on the coupons found.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Don’t list various sexual activities on the coupons, list down sex positions instead. Another tip is not to indicate this in words but in pictures. Cut out (or download from the internet and print out) some really hot sex positions and paste this on the sex coupons.

TRUTH OR DARE

This is a sexualized version of this popular game. Tonight, make sure you’re alone at home. After a nice, sexy, romantic dinner, turn down the lights, light some scented candles and play some soft, sexy music.

Take of all your clothes and sit across each other on the floor or bed, and then play the traditional Turn or Dare game. This time, however, only questions concerning sexual activities are allowed. Use this opportunity to really know your lover and help her bring out your sexual fantasies to life. For example, you can ask questions like “what public place would really like to try and have sex?”, “what sexual fantasy do you want to try tonight”?

BLINDFOLD ME

In this sex game, you’re blindfolded by your lover and she gets to put some lotion or scented oil all over your body. (Stuff like chocolate, honey, or whipped cream is also allowed.) She then starts to touch a part of your body with something (a feather, cotton ball, her tongue, etc.) and then you have to guess what she’s using to touch you. If you guess correctly, you can demand a sexual activity from her. If you guess wrong, she gets to ask a sexual activity from you.

THE ONE-NIGHT STAND

Role-playing is very much a part of many sex games. It’s a great way to break down any shyness on your or her part because a part of you thinks that it’s not really you engaging in that sexual act anyway. One favorite sex game of many couples is to role-play the one nigh stand affair.

Don’t plan this one. Just email, call or send a message to your partner that you plan to eat out tonight and if he/she can meet you at this pub or bar later. (You can decide to meet at a real sleazy bar.) Don’t give anything else away.

Once you meet at the pub, act like you’re someone else and try to ‘pick her up’ from the bar. If she’s game, she’ll easily pick up your hints and play along. Now, move on and DON’T go home. Go to a motel or hotel room and do the deed!

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If it takes you a while to convince your partner to agree to shoot a private, erotic video with you then you can hardly expect her to behave in ‘wild abandon’ during the lovemaking shoot. However, there are ways you can bring out that wild side of hers even if it’s your first time to shoot an x-rated video together. How? Try role-playing scenarios!

X-Rated Video Role-playing Ideas You Can Try Tonight

Role-playing is a great way to enable your partner to get out of her shell and shed her shyness. This is because with role-playing, she gets to be ‘another person’ and as such will not be as reserved or inhibited on camera. Here are some of the most common role-playing scenarios lovers all over the world love to try!

Teacher/Student

In this scenario, take the dominating role. Let your partner be the student who needs to submit to you. Actually, this is good if she’s still shy as she only needs to follow whatever naughty thing you tell her to do. Furthermore, this scenario may be done outside the bedroom, like on the kitchen table or dining table or any sturdy table or desk, which ups the role-playing factor.

Service Worker/Housewife

This is another great role-playing idea to adapt if your partner still has a few inhibitions. You can play the cable guy or plumber, who simply wants to give a bored housewife the attention she deserves. For a wicked twist, DON’T tell your partner that you’ll be coming home in the middle of the day. (But of course, setup the video equipment beforehand.) Just knock on the door at 2 or 3 PM, catching your partner unawares and see where it goes!

Hooker or Stripper and Her Client

In this scenario, you can be the laid-back partner, and she the dominant one. This scenario can start with her entering the room and being all ‘slutty’ for you. She can then do a lap dance for you or do a pole dance routine using one of your bed posts! The nice part here is that she gets to wear sexy clothes or even put on a mask, which may help clear away any remaining inhibitions.

Top Model/Photographer

This scenario actually helps your partner to be more comfortable in front of the camera before you guys start lovemaking. Set up the scene like a real photo shoot, where she needs to pose in front of you and the camera. Slowly ask her to remove her clothes as the photo shoot progresses. You know what to do once she takes off her last piece of garment…

Masseuse/Client

This role-playing scenario is great as it paves the way for you (or her) to receive a sexual massage first! Just imagine her kneading your tight, tired muscles; using slick, perfumed massage oil all over your body, culminating on your genitals, and then just as you’re rock hard, she gets on top of you! I’m sure you can think of ways to return the favor…

Doctor/Patient

Probably one of the most common role-playing scenarios couples play is the doctor/patient one. Why? Well, imagine all the ‘examinations’ and ‘poking’ the doctor needs to do to all over you’re the patient to find out what’s wrong!

Soccer Star / Cheerleader

Do you both love to sport? If so, being the soccer stud secretly making love to the top cheer leader is a fantasy not far behind! You can even do this after going to the gym or after running together. Practical, huh?

Maid / Client

There’s something quite irresistible about illicit sex. Even though this will be make believe as you will be making love to each other, still, the thought of her as a hapless maid or house help trying to evade the advances of her employer only to give in, leaves a lot to a sexually active imagination! Start by having her on video as cleaning the bedroom and gradually walk into the bedroom yourself. Make sexual advances on her. She may refuse at the start or adopt a “I thought you’d never come” look and then see where this goes!

Another role-playing thing to try is of course bondage and dominatrix scenarios. You may want to try this out later on but for x-rated video beginners this may not be the right time for this. First you need to build your confidence and comfort in front of the camera and your trust in each other. Once you guys have improved on these fronts, then bondage and dominatrix games are great new things to further spice up your relationship.

Enjoy!

Sarah

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You can add romance and passion to your lives and stay within the confines of your budget, too. With some creativity and imagination, you can prepare some special time for you and your partner without having to spend your children’s college tuition!

As most of these are at-home dates, make sure the premises are yours and yours alone. Pack the kids off for the evening with relatives or friendly neighbors (and don’t forget to let them know you’ll reciprocate).

Now it’s time to be together for your budget date. But with what you’ll do to one another, it won’t feel like a cheap date…

Today’s Sexercise – Sexy ‘At Home’ Dates

Spend some time thinking about your date and planning for it. Maybe you’ll want to plan more than one date for the month. Whatever works with your lifestyle is fine.

What you will find, though, is that you don’t have to rob a bank (or be a wealthy banker, for that matter) to have a wonderful date with your lover.

Here are some suggestions for a hot, inexpensive good time.

1. Set a timer and slow dance with one another while naked. Add some fun to this by making it a game. For example, tell each other there will be no touching with hands until the music ends.

2. Make your lover a midnight snack and serve it in bed, using a tray with your best linen, plates and silverware. Make sure you’re naked when you serve it (remember – you’re the dessert).

3. Fasten around your lover’s waist a belt, length of fabric or part of an old shirt as tightly as you can. This feeling of being encased beneath clothing is highly arousing; and can lead to a great deal of anticipation of the evening to come.

4. Think about erotic gift certificates that will turn your partner on. This is a wonderful way to give – without spending any money! Some ideas include a year’s worth of sensual massage or a certificate offering to fulfill your lover’s deepest sexual fantasies for an entire evening.

5. Go to www.virtualflowers.com and send your lover a free virtual bouquet. Sign the card with a silly message like ‘Happy Arbor Day’ or ‘Happy Millard Fillmore’s Birthday’.

6. Along the ‘greeting card’ line, create your own homemade greeting card either on the computer or with scissors and paper. Inside the card, provide a hot and graphic description about what you plan to do with him or her during the night. Then the card into your partner’s lunch.

7. Dig out the Christmas lights and use them to light the bedroom.

8. Create an imaginary love potion from herb tea and flavorings. Tell your lover that drinking it makes you a love slave, committed to doing anything your ‘owner’ wishes. Or reverse roles by asking your lover to drink the potion and become your love slave.

9. Strip poker or strip rummy have been around forever, for a reason – they’re fun when it comes to love play. In this version, be sure to wear lots of clothes and strip them off slowly. This builds the anticipation as you reveal yourselves, inch by inch, to one another.

10. With your partner watching you, unplug the TV. Commit yourselves to an evening together, loving and being loved in all ways shapes and forms. Though this action sounds like a small thing, it really says a lot; namely that you’re willing to forgo external stimulation to give and receive pleasure.

11. Tune the clock radio to an easy-listening station and set it for 3:00 a.m. When it goes off, cuddle, snuggle and stroke; then see where it leads.

12. See how long you can tease your partner without him or her reaching orgasm. The effort not to come sometimes makes the sex all the more erotic. Try doing everything you can to drive your lover over the edge despite his or her best efforts.

13. Caress one another without using your hands. Women, use your breasts, feet and lips to turn him on. And men, your erect penis makes a fabulous tool for touching your lover without fingers.

14. Make a ‘Sex Partner Wanted’ ad and include all the things you’d really like your partner to do to you. Don’t be shy – this is the time to indulge in your wildest and hottest fantasies. Then let your lover pick one thing to do to you. Don’t forget to return the favor, though.

Basically, you don’t need a huge bank account to create a romantic, passionate date. It simply takes some ingenuity, creativity and a whole lot of willingness to indulge in some new ideas.

As far as women’s erogenous zones go, most men know that we just love having our breasts caressed. However, we women have many more areas that also enjoy being paid attention to. Learning where they are and how to pay useful attention to them will improve your lovemaking by leaps and bounds.

5 (Unexpected) Ways to Flip Her Switch

Give her neck some lovin’.

The neck is a serious erogenous zone for women. It’s right up there with breasts. But I am not suggesting you give your lady a hickey. Those went out with the high school prom. (If you do make a mistake and give just a little too much lovin’ to her neck and she woman ends up with a hickey, apologize profusely. Most women do not find humor in this and won’t appreciate having to hide the obvious “love bite” for up to a week.)

When you give special attention to the neck, do it lovingly and gently and with passion. Kiss her entire neck tenderly, and don’t forget the area behind and under her ears. Start out kissing the area gently and when she seems to get into it, you can take your “necking” to the next stage and kiss and nibble a little harder.

Kiss and linger… on her lips.

That’s right. I said kiss her. If you are in a long-term relationship or you are married, you likely forget to kiss your partner during lovemaking. This is one of the chief complaints that women have. We love to kiss and men too often forget our lips when making love.

Start with the lips and vary the speed and energy of the kiss. You can kiss her tenderly and then passionately. Then stop kissing her lips and kiss her eyes, her nose, her cheeks. Come back to the lips and kiss her passionately again while moving your hands all over her body. Then stop moving your hands and kiss her with focused intensity.

Trust me – she’ll love this. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to another lovemaking activity.

Pay attention to her fingers and toes.

For some reason, fingers and toes are extremely sensitive to kissing and sucking. If you combine this with stimulation in other parts of the body, it can be incredibly erotic.

Some women may actually prevent you from kissing or sucking her toes but that’s probably because she got caught off guard and is now self-conscious. As such, try to have an intimate shower together first. This way, when you move on to lovemaking in bed and you try to pay attention to her toes, she won’t hesitate and let you do the naughty things you plan to do.

Don’t ignore her ears.

First of all, do NOT stick a hard tongue into her ear! Few women enjoy this, even though men often think women do. Instead, take advantage of the sensitive nature of ears and play around with them. They are ultra-sensitive to touch so some gentle caressing and nibbling is often all you need to do to increase her passions.

Start by using your fingers to gently play with her ears, massaging the outer area and the earlobes. Kiss her around her ears, behind her ears and just under her ears. Don’t be afraid to moan quietly or make other noises in her ears – most women find this a huge turn-on. Finally, exhale gently into her ear. The feeling of your warm breath on her ear, combined with gentle nibbling, will flip her switch into overdrive!

Ok, let’s go back to breasts.

I know I mentioned that you should go beyond breasts but on this section, I want to inform you on how else you can caress her breasts to get more passion out of her.

Sure, women’s breasts are quiet sensitive (which is good for seduction purposes) but she must be ready for your more vigorous touches before you actually start doing them. Because men enjoy playing with breasts and women often enjoy it too, breasts actually end up getting shortchanged.

Here’s what I mean – if you give her breasts too much attention too soon, it doesn’t feel good. Breasts are loaded with nerve endings and all women have the same amount of nerve endings, so those with small breasts and those with large breasts all have the same potential for arousal.

When you first begin playing with her breasts, use a delicate hand. Begin touching her so lightly it almost seems to you that you’re not touching her at all. But trust us – she feels it. Kiss her breast, but not the nipple area. Kiss and caress just her areola to begin with, and then the underside of her breast. Keep caressing and kissing and every now and then, pull away or stop. Keep her wanting for more before you finally indulge and take her nipple into your mouth/

There you have it – five ways to really light her fire. Now go put out that flame!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Just like many things surrounding sex and its pleasures, masturbation or self-love has gone on to have bad name. Masturbation is often seen as a taboo and admitting to it seems to indicate that there’s something wrong with you.

On the contrary, masturbating is common, natural, and most of all, it’s healthy for you!

So why not indulge in some selfless self-love? It can be good for you, and it might just be what your sex life needs right now.

IMPORTANT: Masturbation doesn´t mean doing it on your own! You can enjoy self-pleasure with your woman (it´s a great turn on for both of you).

With that said, let´s get started…

Here’s Why You Should Indulge and Masturbate…

It’s NORMAL to masturbate.

If you stop and think about it, what’s wrong with pleasuring yourself? You’re not cheating on your sex partner (actually you can do it with her, as I explained). So this is not infidelity. Besides, your sex drive may be higher than your sex partner so masturbating is just an easy, natural way to even out the sexual need differences between the two of you.

The only important thing to remember is this: masturbation should not evolve into being the ONLY thing that can bring you to a climax. Meaning, if you can’t have sex with your partner anymore because you’re more interested in self-love, then THAT is a problem in your relationship and you need to address this intimacy issue with your partner. Masturbating will not help there.

However, if masturbation is recreational and is simply just one of those things that enable you to have a joyful sex life, then by all means, go for it!

Masturbation helps get rid of stress.

Today’s hectic lifestyles mean we get stressed often. And sometimes, this stress can be easily alleviated by simply engaging in a healthy dose of masturbation.

If you’re having such a day, here’s what you can do (all these tips can be done on-your-own or with your partner):

Tip #1. Have a long, hot soak in the tub or take a hot shower. When you reach for the shampoo, conditioner, or what not and you feel like pleasuring yourself. Give in. You’ll feel refreshed from the shower and relaxed from the release.

Tip #2. Get an x-rated magazine and lock yourself for a few minutes in a room. You can also take a few minutes and watch some naughty videos.

Tip #3. If you have a healthy imagination, simply go to quiet place and be alone for a while. Close your eyes and let your imagination go from naughty to wild. Reach down and pleasure yourself for release.

Masturbation improves your health.

Here’s one thing that you should not forget the next time you feel that masturbation is ‘sinful’ – self-love is good for your health!

• It gets rid of headaches and helps improve your mood. Studies show that self-love results in the release of mood elevating hormones that can ban away headaches and basically lift your spirits so you end up feeling happier.

• It gets rid of sexual tension and helps with emotional development. We all don’t have the same desires when it comes to sex. For instance, If you want to try a certain sex position and your partner absolutely does not want to, this can cause sexual tension physically. Masturbation can at least give you the release you physically need.

Self-love is also good for emotional development because by engaging in healthy masturbation you get a chance to learn more about yourself; what really turns you on and what doesn’t. This information can then be used by you or relayed to your sex partner so that you can prevent instances of premature ejaculation.

• Its good for your prostate. If you don’t release prostate fluid, it’s going to stay there and, simply put, ‘block your pipe’. Studies show that prostate fluid actually has 3-methylcholanthrene, the same carcinogen that one finds in cigarette smoke. As such, you’re really doing yourself a world of good by ejecting seminal fluids as often as you can. At the very least, keeping seminal fluid can lead to urinary and ejaculatory pain.

It can be quite hard to embrace masturbation as a good thing especially if it’s always been deemed a shameful and sinful habit for centuries. However, as in most things, ignorance can lead to a lot of problems and stress in your daily life and sex life.

Stop trying to view masturbation as a bad thing and start viewing it as a simple, natural and healthy inclination… that just so happens to be sexual in nature.

So please… promise me that you will enjoy a moment of self-love on your own or with your partner TODAY!

Enjoy honey…

Sarah

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Performance anxiety is commonly misinterpreted as “stage fright”, but there is a reason for it. It has been stated, that “the whole world is a stage” and we are willing or unwilling participants in it. Performing artists like musicians, singers, actors and speakers have faced this enemy during their careers and braved them one way or another.

But this enemy is very common in human relationships too and particularly ferocious when it comes to sex. Men face this enemy every time they are about to have sex and there is one reason which makes this anxiety almost unbearable: will I last long enough to satisfy my partner?

How to Make Sure You Don’t Orgasm Before She Does

1. Prolong the foreplay.

Instead of plowing away once the sex really gets going, take your time to caress your partner and explore her body with your other extremities. While the male organ seems to be the only arousal point on a man’s body, women have these sensitive areas all over the place.

Her reaction to your probing will give you a fairly good idea where they are. While she approaches ecstasy with your every successful exploration, you not only learn your partner’s secret areas, but also preserve your own stamina for the final battle.

2. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what turns her on.

Conversation is a very important part of the whole sexual experience. This time though, you want to encourage her to tell you what REALLY turns her on. Clever sexual innuendos during pre-sex time and gentle inquiries during sex not only give you vital information, but stimulate your partner’s fantasy, which makes her hornier, which makes her reach her orgasm faster! Just before you reach your own…

3. Oral sex

Spicing things up by pleasuring or “heating up” your partner with oral stimulation gives you time to breath. While orally satisfying a woman is requiring a keen ear to your partner’s needs and leads, it may be the last resort for your premature curtain call. It is not a solution to “take a break” during sex. While it may help you, you probably will have to start with your partner from square one. Switching to oral sex gives you the needed break without interrupting your partner’s pleasure cruise.

4. Know your own body.

Japanese Geisha’s are known to be able to bring a man to ecstasy without having him prematurely end the fun. If they can do that, you can too IF you know your own body.

Knowing your body’s primary arousal points can help you last longer if you avoid… for now. Another trick is to squeeze the base of your shaft right before the Big Ben strikes ten on the top and the bottom side. If you do it right, it stops you cold.

A good physical condition is also helpful in enduring the physical task of keeping it up longer; do not underestimate your muscles’ participation in your endurance quest. Ask your partner to assist you in this self-discovery and sex will never get boring.

5. An honest and open relationship.

Tell your partner about your anxiety and let her know that you want to last longer to give her more pleasure. While this is most of the time not possible when you are in bed for the first time with a new partner, once you are an item and sex gets to be a somewhat regular pastime, honesty is the way to go.

6. If it all fails, do it again!

Leonardo Da Vinci’s first painting was not the Mona Lisa and even when he was painting the masterpiece he did not get it right the first time. Multiple layers have been discovered by x-ray technology procedures, documenting that even the Master himself needed several tries to get it right.

By exploring your own limits and practicing as often as you both feel like will lead to more confidence, more pleasure, more mutual acceptance and trust, and ultimately more endurance and better sex for both of you.

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I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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A woman masturbating in front of her partner is a predominantly male fantasy. Women tend to enjoy interacting with their partners when they are together and then play with herself alone.

For all possible reasons, be it mere curiosity, adolescent associations, voyeuristic tendencies, or something else altogether, this fantasy to watch a woman masturbate has strong appeal to men of all ages. So why keep it a fantasy?

Ways to Persuade Her to Engage in ‘Self-Love’ Right Before Your Eyes

First and the most important factor that will eventually lead towards fulfilling your fantasy is trust. Your partner has to trust you. If she trusts you, it’s amazing how easy it can be to accomplish this goal.

It may be as simple as asking her to do it. But more often than not, you need to build on the trust between you first, and this may take some time. Some women are so dependent on their men, they would almost instantly do anything to please him. Other women will never do a single thing that makes them uncomfortable, no matter how much they love their partners. Therefore, one of the goals here would be to make your woman feel comfortable enough to succumb to playing out this fantasy of yours.

To convince her to do it for the first time is a problem, because how do you tell her what you want in a proper and non-demeaning way? An honest relationship allows you to approach your partner with all your needs and desires, so simply explaining to her this fantasy you harbor would be a good start. If she is reluctant, offer to do it first.

Ask your partner to sit down, fully clothed and have her watch you masturbate. Do not allow her to interact, just allow her to watch.

Perhaps it would help if you offer her to role-play. The story would go something like this: she is alone at home, in bed, reading. You are a burglar who got surprised by her early return and who is hiding in the closet. She can then pretend that nobody is home and have a go at herself, while you are in the closet ogling your eyes out.

Also, be careful of being misunderstood by your request to watch her masturbate. Think of it from her point of view: she is present, ready and willing to have sex with you… and you prefer to just watch and not engage with her?

Unless you really explain why you want to do it this way, she’ll figure you’re a pervert. You, on the other hand, will have a hard time staying put. At some point the pressure in your pants will go berserk, so calculate that occurrence when you propose to do a purely voyeuristic encounter.

Why Masturbation is Good for Your Relationship

Why is it important to go through with such a fantasy? This is because it is healthy for your relationship to live out all your sexual fantasies together with your partner.

If you don’t talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and you leave them simmering in the back of your head, some day you will get a feeling as if you are missing out on something. Such desires can get very strong and ultimately ruin a good relationship.

The solution is to speak out about it. Women are smart, but they cannot read minds, again unless you are married to her for a decade or so. Actually, this advice to speak out about your sexual fantasies goes both ways. You need to ask her about her fantasies and reciprocate by fulfilling her desires too.

A very young relationship, where you have been together with a woman for a couple of days, or maybe weeks, is frail and asking your girlfriend to perform for you is a risk. However, if you are honest and able to properly define your reasons for asking such a thing, she may do it. And even if she doesn’t this should be fine with you.

There is plenty of time to get back to that idea later. An icebreaker may be to propose to masturbate simultaneously, watching each other. This may also be a solution in case she is reluctant to have real sex.

On the other hand, a mature relationship, perhaps a yearlong marriage, does very little to promote variety and sex is mostly a matter of catching a mutually convenient and physically possible moment to get intimate.

To waste that moment on a fantasy may seem ludicrous to you, but believe me that a change in the routine may be a very welcome surprise to your love life. It is always good to be creative and imaginative with your partner, so that she feels wanted, desirable, sexy and beautiful. After years of marriage, sometimes that validation is more important to a woman then having sex. So really, asking her to masturbate in front of you may be something she’s secretly delighted with!

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One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really give her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you’re using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don’t use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what’s mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you’re going to burn scented oils.

Also, don’t scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don’t forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don’t join her in the bath just yet.

Start sexually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or ‘clean’ her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here’s a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try ‘shampooing’ her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her ‘sweet spot’. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply ‘connect’ with that special place as well. Good luck!

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