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29
Jun

6 Sinful Shower Games!

Posted in arousal, fantasy, foreplay  by Sarah

When was the last time you shared a long, luxurious bath or some quickie shower sex with your lover? Remember how excited, naughty and hot you guys felt? Well, bring that back on with these new and exciting tips for bath and shower games.

Making love in the bathroom brings a different dimension to sex. Your senses seem to be more alive. All of a sudden, you feel the burst of water from the shower head stronger, the scent of the soap or bath gel seems more potent, the body sponge seems to be coarser on your silky body… whew! aren’t these enough reasons to engage in sex games in the shower?!?

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Bath and Shower Sex Games 101

Bath and shower sex games depend a bit on what you have in your bathroom. For example, a big bathtub can allow for sex games (and sex positions) lying down, while a bubbling Jacuzzi can mean sex games involving, well, pulsating jets of water on certain body parts. But don’t worry, if you don’t have access to these, shower stalls bring on their own range of sex games!

First of all, enhance the mood inside the bathroom with a few simple elements. Light some candles, burn a bit of scented oil, you can even a portable CD-player and play some sensual music. Do what it takes to crate the perfect sexual environment.

Now on to our bath and shower sex games.

The Shower Sex Slave

In this game, you take the role of a slave, and your only purpose is to wash and clean the other. Start by undressing the ‘master’ and combing her hair to remove tangles. Next, work up a lather and start to gently scrub and wash her body. Of course, you need to clean EVERY crevice of her body. A good slave never misses a spot. Now, shampoo her hair and by this we mean not only the hair on top of her head.

As you bathe your ‘master’, feel free to tease every inch of her body. Remember, in this sex game, her whole body is fair game so feel free to touch, poke, caress, and others.

At this stage, it’s up to you guys where you want to go. You can proceed with lovemaking or change roles and you get to be ‘master’ now.

The Shower Cowgirl / Cowboy

This sex game involves the use of shower pistols. Feel free to aim and shoot at each and every erogenous zone on your partner’s body.

The White T-Shirt Contest

Okay, this sex game is more for your benefit. Ask your partner to shower with a flimsy white t-shirt on and just watch her as she gets wet under the shower. As her nipples get rock-hard under the shower head, start to play with yourself. Seeing you play with yourself should make her do the same with her body. When you guys can’t take it anymore, come together in what can only be described as wet and wild sex!

The Voyeur

There’s always a hint of the Peeping Tom in all of us. Bring this to the next level by engaging in foreplay in front of the bathroom mirror. Clear the bathroom counter and sit her on it. Start foreplay; all the while taking sneak peaks at each other on the mirror.

Peek-a-Boo

This one needs a bathtub where you guys can lie down or sit up. Make a perfect bath with lots of bubbles/suds. The point is to tease your partner with your manhood. As your erection gets bigger, it should ‘break the surface’ of the bubbles and thus be accessible to your partner. How she accesses it is up to her. She can use her mouth, hands, toes. When it’s your turn, the object of your attention is her erect and perky nipples.

Wheel of Steamy, Sex Fortune

The object of this game is to spin the wheel and do whatever sex activity or position the wheel indicates. Actually, you can purchase something like this from sex shops, which even come with suction cups so you can attach it on the bathroom wall or shower stall glass. You can also just make your own.

If you make your own, try to make one with two wheels. One that indicates time period (60 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, etc.) and one that holds a picture of the sex activity (e.g., French kissing, licking, deep throating, etc.) or sex position (man on top, woman on top, doggy style, etc.). Wherever the wheel stops, you guys must do whatever the image indicates for the time period the second wheel says.

Have fun!

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8
Jun

8 Role-Playing Ideas For Your “Naughty” Movie!

If it takes you a while to convince your partner to agree to shoot a private, erotic video with you then you can hardly expect her to behave in ‘wild abandon’ during the lovemaking shoot. However, there are ways you can bring out that wild side of hers even if it’s your first time to shoot an x-rated video together. How? Try role-playing scenarios!

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X-Rated Video Role-playing Ideas You Can Try Tonight

Role-playing is a great way to enable your partner to get out of her shell and shed her shyness. This is because with role-playing, she gets to be ‘another person’ and as such will not be as reserved or inhibited on camera. Here are some of the most common role-playing scenarios lovers all over the world love to try!

Teacher/Student

In this scenario, take the dominating role. Let your partner be the student who needs to submit to you. Actually, this is good if she’s still shy as she only needs to follow whatever naughty thing you tell her to do. Furthermore, this scenario may be done outside the bedroom, like on the kitchen table or dining table or any sturdy table or desk, which ups the role-playing factor.

Service Worker/Housewife

This is another great role-playing idea to adapt if your partner still has a few inhibitions. You can play the cable guy or plumber, who simply wants to give a bored housewife the attention she deserves. For a wicked twist, DON’T tell your partner that you’ll be coming home in the middle of the day. (But of course, setup the video equipment beforehand.) Just knock on the door at 2 or 3 PM, catching your partner unawares and see where it goes!

Hooker or Stripper and Her Client

In this scenario, you can be the laid-back partner, and she the dominant one. This scenario can start with her entering the room and being all ‘slutty’ for you. She can then do a lap dance for you or do a pole dance routine using one of your bed posts! The nice part here is that she gets to wear sexy clothes or even put on a mask, which may help clear away any remaining inhibitions.

Top Model/Photographer

This scenario actually helps your partner to be more comfortable in front of the camera before you guys start lovemaking. Set up the scene like a real photo shoot, where she needs to pose in front of you and the camera. Slowly ask her to remove her clothes as the photo shoot progresses. You know what to do once she takes off her last piece of garment…

Masseuse/Client

This role-playing scenario is great as it paves the way for you (or her) to receive a sexual massage first! Just imagine her kneading your tight, tired muscles; using slick, perfumed massage oil all over your body, culminating on your genitals, and then just as you’re rock hard, she gets on top of you! I’m sure you can think of ways to return the favor…

Doctor/Patient

Probably one of the most common role-playing scenarios couples play is the doctor/patient one. Why? Well, imagine all the ‘examinations’ and ‘poking’ the doctor needs to do to all over you’re the patient to find out what’s wrong!

Soccer Star / Cheerleader

Do you both love to sport? If so, being the soccer stud secretly making love to the top cheer leader is a fantasy not far behind! You can even do this after going to the gym or after running together. Practical, huh?

Maid / Client

There’s something quite irresistible about illicit sex. Even though this will be make believe as you will be making love to each other, still, the thought of her as a hapless maid or house help trying to evade the advances of her employer only to give in, leaves a lot to a sexually active imagination! Start by having her on video as cleaning the bedroom and gradually walk into the bedroom yourself. Make sexual advances on her. She may refuse at the start or adopt a “I thought you’d never come” look and then see where this goes!

Another role-playing thing to try is of course bondage and dominatrix scenarios. You may want to try this out later on but for x-rated video beginners this may not be the right time for this. First you need to build your confidence and comfort in front of the camera and your trust in each other. Once you guys have improved on these fronts, then bondage and dominatrix games are great new things to further spice up your relationship.

Enjoy!

Sarah

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1
Jun

A few hot “lingerie” ideas for your loved one!

Hi! Sarah here.

I know it’s not Valentines… or Christmas (as the video mentions).

However now is ALSO a great time to buy your loved one hot and sexy lingerie!

(Important: There´s NOTHING sexier for a woman than getting new lingerie from her lover! She will pay you back in a veeeery nice way, trust me.)

Let the sensual AMY show you some of the sexiest ideas. Just watch the video below.

So get yourself comfortable, and ENJOY! :)

Sarah

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10
Apr

Try These Sex Games Tonight!

I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

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Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. :) I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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14
Mar

Happy Easter with Libido Food to Turn Her On!

If it is politically correct to say diamonds are a woman’s best friend, would it be right to say that aphrodisiacs are a man’s best friend?

One of the biggest challenges for guys when it comes to sex is how to ensure that his woman is also in the mood for it. What usually happens is this: you want sex and she, for some reason, doesn’t. However, instead of getting sexually frustrated - or worse, try to force her! - why not enlist the help of a few aphrodisiacs?

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No need to go exotic and spend a gargantuan amount of money. Try these ‘natural’ aphrodisiacs to set her in the right mood without going through too much hassle.

Balut

Balut, the popular delicacy of most Filipinos, is actually a fertilized duck that has a developed embryo inside. The egg is boiled and is enjoyed with a pinch of salt and a couple of drops of vinegar. And because a lot of men testify to its astonishing effects, plus its affordability compared to other forms of aphrodisiacs, the balut has become a popular street food in Asian countries. However, thanks to the wonders of exports, you can probably find balut in any Asian grocery store near you.

If you don’t want to try this now, then don’t forget about it when you and your woman are on a trip in Asia. It’s worth a try!

Ginseng

Ginseng is a genus of 11 species of perennial plants with fleshy roots. They grow in China, Asia, Korea and Siberia. Normally, ginseng is used as nourishing stimulants and as treatment of Type II Diabetes. It’s also widely used in vitamins and food supplements for men. But since its discovery, only lately has its most significant use been adopted. That is, it’s undoubted role in men’s sexual prowess. In fact, according to a 2002 study, both Asian and American forms of ginseng markedly increased libido levels of animals, thus improving their sexual performance.

If your woman drinks a lot of tea already, then switching to one that is ginger-flavored is not a bad idea. A few dishes cooked with a lot of ginger is also nice. Just don’t serve a plateful of raw ginger! I assure you, any ‘hotness’ from this will not lead to sex!

Honey

Honey is a sweet viscous liquid that can actually bring sex performance to higher levels and make your “honey” beg you for more. Coming from the nectar of flowers, honey is a mixture mainly of sugars and other compounds like fructose and glucose. The nitric oxide in it is also known to open up blood vessels and stimulate erection. This may sound like an aphrodisiac for you rather than for her… but an obviously erect penis works wonders for us women as well!

Besides, honey can be ‘consumed’ in many ways right? So why not spread a bit of honey on your ‘honey’? Lick away! Lick away! Lick away!

Oats

Who says oats are only for dieters? Oats work as well in letting out the real man in you. Among the sources of aphrodisiacs, this is the most affordable one. In recent studies, the power of oats has been seen to significantly race the level of testosterone in men. Think it’s impossible? Try it!

Oysters

La Trelle Spencer in White Chicks said that oysters are an aphrodisiac. And yes it’s true! It’s been found that oysters are rich in certain amino acids that notably increase the levels of sex hormones. You may also want to add some spice to your oysters as spice can lead to increased heart rate and sometimes even sweating. These are responses similar to the ones you feel when you’re ‘getting it on’. So once you smell your honey cooking up some grilled oysters, you know what’s going to happen next!

Peanut Butter

Peanut butter lovers certainly will love to read this. This lovely snack can actually increase the desire for sex! It is rich in Vitamin B1 and Vitamin E, which is also called the “sexuality vitamin”.

And here’s a naughty tip you can try! Make sure your woman is sitting somewhere, say on the sofa, dinner chair, whatever! Then go ala Elvis and get a banana. Half-peel this and smear the top with peanut butter. No, position the half-peeled banana directly in front of your penis (and facing her face!). Approach your woman and, WITHOUT LAUGHING, ask her to taste your banana. If she doesn’t get horny from this, I don’t know what will!

Indeed, nature has everything to offer. What more could you ask for? Delicious aphrodisiac foods that are very affordable. All you have to do is learn these tricks and remember that hot sex doesn’t depend on how much aphrodisiac you eat but in the love that you put in it.

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10
Mar

Lights… camera… action!

Hi all!

It´s finally 2008, I´m so excited about 2008. :)

Today I´ll give you some tips to spend a VERY sensual evening with your partner.

It´s called “lights… camera… action!”

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Because the idea is to take advantage of the technology we have today (such as digital cameras) to enjoy some sexy moments together.

So let´s get started!

1. Grab your video camera and make your own porno movie together. I recommend creating a title for the movie and a story. Don´t just have sex in front of a camera! Create a story first, and then act it…

2. Get a few costumes to make your porno movie even more sensual. For example, try roles like: CEO of a company, secretary, soldier, prostitute, etc.

3. Another great technique is to videotape yourselves having sex. Just have sex as usual. And then watch the movie together to see what you both like and what you´re doing wrong. (It will help both of you improve your sex skills!)

4. Finally I recommend preparing a romantic dinner together, grab a bottle of red wine, a few candles and… enjoy your sensual movies together!

Enjoy! :)

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5
Feb

The Magical World Of Tantric Sex

Posted in enhance libido, fantasy, g-spot, libido  by Sarah

“Tantra does not require “believing in” something, or even “agreeing with” anything. There is nothing to accept on blind faith. The validity of Tantric teachings and practices lies in our own experience, our own inner process. We don’t have to take anyone’s word for anything. No one is asking us to believe anything. There is no dogma. The only way we can truly practice Tantra is to give up our concepts of what we think is happening and see what is actually happening. Through the process of Kundalini awakening we open up to inner or intuitive knowledge. The Shakti stimulates insights and breakthroughs. We practice Tantra and relate these practices to our day-to-day life. We become more fulfilled and powerful.” —– Gurumayi Chidvilasananda

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Supreme Bliss Tantra

Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy that transforms Kundalini, or orgasmic energy, into expanded consciousness. Tantra believes that all energy is life force energy. Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path that uses Kundalini energy practices to…

- Deepen love, intimacy and ecstasy
- Extend lovemaking, and
- Create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra…

…heals your mind, body, and spirit, connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to reach cosmic peaks of pleasure making life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is. Wow! Can you see why I’m so jazzed about it?

Ancient Tradition Without Fear

The word Tantra comes from the roots “to expand, extend, and weave.” Tantrikas, adepts at Tantric practice, extend their awareness, heighten their sensitivity, expand their consciousness, and weave all the energies of life together to affirm joyous living.

Tantra emerged thousands of years ago in India, moving to China and Tibet as a grass-roots rebellion against the repressive hierarchical religions of the day. Back then, to even reach for enlightenment required lifetimes of denying desire and doing penance for past-life karma. Tantra opened the doors of spiritual evolution to everyone, regardless of their social status.

If you’re worried about what you’re getting yourself into, don’t. Tantra isn’t a religion based on faith, dogma, or right living. You don’t have to join, carry a card, cut your hair, or wear robes.

Since it’s not really a philosophy, it has no rules, qualifications, or requirements. There’s no code of behavior, no punishment for sin, and no pot of gold waiting for you in the afterlife at the end of the rainbow.

If you’re seeking inner peace, higher consciousness, a more fulfilling sex life with a new partner, or rekindling the earlier fire with a longtime mate, the erotic sacred wisdom of India and other Eastern cultures can help.

East Meets West

In the modern West, we stress the power of knowledge and thought. What you know determines what you can do. You measure success through hard work, accumulation material wealth, and caring for your relationship and family.

You reap physical pleasures, moments of happiness, and a high quality of living.

In the traditional East, the quality of inner life — not the process of living — was more important. Inner peace free from raging mind chatter was and is most important. Inner stillness free from the ravages of the pursuit of success and the fear of failure. Inner harmony free from relationship ups and downs by loving yourself most.

You reap Supreme Bliss by experiencing joy in every breath, every tree, every flower, every moment. Tantra is the bridge between the East and West — the path to the joy of the soul through full awareness of the physical world.

By learning to make love consciously, fully, spiritually, you transcend the outer school of hard knocks and grow into total acceptance of your inner self while living in the world.

In Tantra, sacred sex is a path, not an end.

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21
Jan

Using Handcuffs for Wild Sex!

Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

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While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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7
Jan

Outdoor Sex Fantasies!

Posted in fantasy, foreplay, libido  by Sarah

Ok “boys”, lets get started with today´s naughty fantasies.

Important: I said FANTASIES!

It´s not legal to have sex outdoors in most countries, so let´s just fantasize together darling.

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Here are some of my hottest Outdoor Sex Fantasies:

1. Get a blow up pool and enjoy a moment together in your backyard;

2. Go camping with close friends, and get a sleeping bag for 2 (for hot sex while your friends are sleeping);

3. Try having sex in a hammock;

4. Go to the closest beach, and try a “salt water” sex experience;

5. Rent a kayak (or similar), go far away from the beach and have hot sex;

6. Try something on in a store together, and enjoy wild sex in the dressing room;

7. Take your woman to a restaurant (outdoors) and tell her to give you a blow job (under the table cloth);

8. Invite your closest friends to a picnic, and have sex in the car while they´re getting the BBQ ready!

Now it´s YOUR turn. :)

Please take a moment to write your fantasies in the “Leave a Comment” section!

Kisses!

Sarah

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24
Dec

6 Sexy Tips For Christmas!

Posted in fantasy, lingerie, sex, toys  by Sarah

Hi there!

First of all:

Happy holiday season! :)

I honestly LOVE helping you improve your sex life. Trust me, that is by FAR the best Christmas gift I can get…

But enough about me… let´s talk about you and how to enjoy the sexiest Christmas ever!

Here are a few tips…

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1. Buy the hottest sex toy and give it to your loved one in a red box (with red and green gift wrap) during christmas… Yes, during the “family” dinner. But tell her to open the box after the party.

2. Write a sensual letter to “Santa” asking for the hottest sex toys and female lingerie (for her), and give it to your woman a night before Christmas.

3. Give her the best Christmas gift ever: a letter (signed by you) with a formal commitment to be her SEX slave for one week.

4. Ask your girl NOT to wear underwear during the Christmas dinner. Plus, she MUST wear a dress!

5. Sit right next to her during the “family” dinner… and touch her slowly… Make sure there´s a long table cloth!

6. After dinner is over, she´ll be ready for wild sex. So, hurry and go back home to enjoy the new sex toys together! :)

Have a VERY sensual holiday season!

Once again: helping you is the BEST gift I can get! :)

Love and Kisses,

Sarah

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