Just like many things surrounding sex and its pleasures, masturbation or self-love has gone on to have bad name. Masturbation is often seen as a taboo and admitting to it seems to indicate that there’s something wrong with you.

On the contrary, masturbating is common, natural, and most of all, it’s healthy for you!

So why not indulge in some selfless self-love? It can be good for you, and it might just be what your sex life needs right now.

IMPORTANT: Masturbation doesn´t mean doing it on your own! You can enjoy self-pleasure with your woman (it´s a great turn on for both of you).

With that said, let´s get started…

Here’s Why You Should Indulge and Masturbate…

It’s NORMAL to masturbate.

If you stop and think about it, what’s wrong with pleasuring yourself? You’re not cheating on your sex partner (actually you can do it with her, as I explained). So this is not infidelity. Besides, your sex drive may be higher than your sex partner so masturbating is just an easy, natural way to even out the sexual need differences between the two of you.

The only important thing to remember is this: masturbation should not evolve into being the ONLY thing that can bring you to a climax. Meaning, if you can’t have sex with your partner anymore because you’re more interested in self-love, then THAT is a problem in your relationship and you need to address this intimacy issue with your partner. Masturbating will not help there.

However, if masturbation is recreational and is simply just one of those things that enable you to have a joyful sex life, then by all means, go for it!

Masturbation helps get rid of stress.

Today’s hectic lifestyles mean we get stressed often. And sometimes, this stress can be easily alleviated by simply engaging in a healthy dose of masturbation.

If you’re having such a day, here’s what you can do (all these tips can be done on-your-own or with your partner):

Tip #1. Have a long, hot soak in the tub or take a hot shower. When you reach for the shampoo, conditioner, or what not and you feel like pleasuring yourself. Give in. You’ll feel refreshed from the shower and relaxed from the release.

Tip #2. Get an x-rated magazine and lock yourself for a few minutes in a room. You can also take a few minutes and watch some naughty videos.

Tip #3. If you have a healthy imagination, simply go to quiet place and be alone for a while. Close your eyes and let your imagination go from naughty to wild. Reach down and pleasure yourself for release.

Masturbation improves your health.

Here’s one thing that you should not forget the next time you feel that masturbation is ‘sinful’ – self-love is good for your health!

• It gets rid of headaches and helps improve your mood. Studies show that self-love results in the release of mood elevating hormones that can ban away headaches and basically lift your spirits so you end up feeling happier.

• It gets rid of sexual tension and helps with emotional development. We all don’t have the same desires when it comes to sex. For instance, If you want to try a certain sex position and your partner absolutely does not want to, this can cause sexual tension physically. Masturbation can at least give you the release you physically need.

Self-love is also good for emotional development because by engaging in healthy masturbation you get a chance to learn more about yourself; what really turns you on and what doesn’t. This information can then be used by you or relayed to your sex partner so that you can prevent instances of premature ejaculation.

• Its good for your prostate. If you don’t release prostate fluid, it’s going to stay there and, simply put, ‘block your pipe’. Studies show that prostate fluid actually has 3-methylcholanthrene, the same carcinogen that one finds in cigarette smoke. As such, you’re really doing yourself a world of good by ejecting seminal fluids as often as you can. At the very least, keeping seminal fluid can lead to urinary and ejaculatory pain.

It can be quite hard to embrace masturbation as a good thing especially if it’s always been deemed a shameful and sinful habit for centuries. However, as in most things, ignorance can lead to a lot of problems and stress in your daily life and sex life.

Stop trying to view masturbation as a bad thing and start viewing it as a simple, natural and healthy inclination… that just so happens to be sexual in nature.

So please… promise me that you will enjoy a moment of self-love on your own or with your partner TODAY!

Enjoy honey…

Sarah

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A woman masturbating in front of her partner is a predominantly male fantasy. Women tend to enjoy interacting with their partners when they are together and then play with herself alone.

For all possible reasons, be it mere curiosity, adolescent associations, voyeuristic tendencies, or something else altogether, this fantasy to watch a woman masturbate has strong appeal to men of all ages. So why keep it a fantasy?

Ways to Persuade Her to Engage in ‘Self-Love’ Right Before Your Eyes

First and the most important factor that will eventually lead towards fulfilling your fantasy is trust. Your partner has to trust you. If she trusts you, it’s amazing how easy it can be to accomplish this goal.

It may be as simple as asking her to do it. But more often than not, you need to build on the trust between you first, and this may take some time. Some women are so dependent on their men, they would almost instantly do anything to please him. Other women will never do a single thing that makes them uncomfortable, no matter how much they love their partners. Therefore, one of the goals here would be to make your woman feel comfortable enough to succumb to playing out this fantasy of yours.

To convince her to do it for the first time is a problem, because how do you tell her what you want in a proper and non-demeaning way? An honest relationship allows you to approach your partner with all your needs and desires, so simply explaining to her this fantasy you harbor would be a good start. If she is reluctant, offer to do it first.

Ask your partner to sit down, fully clothed and have her watch you masturbate. Do not allow her to interact, just allow her to watch.

Perhaps it would help if you offer her to role-play. The story would go something like this: she is alone at home, in bed, reading. You are a burglar who got surprised by her early return and who is hiding in the closet. She can then pretend that nobody is home and have a go at herself, while you are in the closet ogling your eyes out.

Also, be careful of being misunderstood by your request to watch her masturbate. Think of it from her point of view: she is present, ready and willing to have sex with you… and you prefer to just watch and not engage with her?

Unless you really explain why you want to do it this way, she’ll figure you’re a pervert. You, on the other hand, will have a hard time staying put. At some point the pressure in your pants will go berserk, so calculate that occurrence when you propose to do a purely voyeuristic encounter.

Why Masturbation is Good for Your Relationship

Why is it important to go through with such a fantasy? This is because it is healthy for your relationship to live out all your sexual fantasies together with your partner.

If you don’t talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and you leave them simmering in the back of your head, some day you will get a feeling as if you are missing out on something. Such desires can get very strong and ultimately ruin a good relationship.

The solution is to speak out about it. Women are smart, but they cannot read minds, again unless you are married to her for a decade or so. Actually, this advice to speak out about your sexual fantasies goes both ways. You need to ask her about her fantasies and reciprocate by fulfilling her desires too.

A very young relationship, where you have been together with a woman for a couple of days, or maybe weeks, is frail and asking your girlfriend to perform for you is a risk. However, if you are honest and able to properly define your reasons for asking such a thing, she may do it. And even if she doesn’t this should be fine with you.

There is plenty of time to get back to that idea later. An icebreaker may be to propose to masturbate simultaneously, watching each other. This may also be a solution in case she is reluctant to have real sex.

On the other hand, a mature relationship, perhaps a yearlong marriage, does very little to promote variety and sex is mostly a matter of catching a mutually convenient and physically possible moment to get intimate.

To waste that moment on a fantasy may seem ludicrous to you, but believe me that a change in the routine may be a very welcome surprise to your love life. It is always good to be creative and imaginative with your partner, so that she feels wanted, desirable, sexy and beautiful. After years of marriage, sometimes that validation is more important to a woman then having sex. So really, asking her to masturbate in front of you may be something she’s secretly delighted with!

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