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2
Aug

Try These Sex Games With CAUTION! ;)

One of the reasons to include sex games in your relationship is to increase excitement and to remove boredom or prevent anything in your relationship from reaching ‘routine status’. As such, you should always be on the lookout for more, new and exciting sex games to try with your lover. And for that you need not go far, simply read on and see which one you want to try tonight, and which ones you want to save for later.

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Daring Sex Games to Push Excitement and Intimacy to the Next Level

HONEY, I LIKE SPORTS TOO

Sports and sex: what a lethal combination! If your partner is one who’s not into sports as you are, then this sex game is a great way for her to take part in your love for the sport too. Start by agreeing on a sport that you both will watch. Assign different teams to each other.

List down several sexual activities; each one increasing in naughtiness and heat level as the last. Watch the game together and list down each team’s scores. At the end of the game, the team/partner with the highest score wins! The loser needs to carry out ALL of the sexual activities listed by the winner.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Instead of waiting for the game to end, cash in your points each time your team scores something.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Carry out this sex game while having family and friends over! During each break, sneak off to the bedroom or bathroom and start collecting your winning points!

FIND YOUR PLEASURE

List down the Top 5 things that you know your lover just absolutely loves you performing on her. Don’t be shy to list down things that really make her crazy and shout! Turn these things into five sex coupons and hide it in different places of your bedroom. Tonight, tell her that she needs to go on a massive sex coupon hunt.

As she searches in the room, say if she’s ‘hotter’ or ‘colder’ as she comes close or far to a sex coupon. Whatever coupon she finds, you must do the deed listed on the coupon!

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Use a timer and set this to 30 seconds or 1 minute. Your partner should find as many sex coupons as she can in that time. Whatever she finds, you must do whatever’s listed on the coupons found.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Don’t list various sexual activities on the coupons, list down sex positions instead. Another tip is not to indicate this in words but in pictures. Cut out (or download from the internet and print out) some really hot sex positions and paste this on the sex coupons.

TRUTH OR DARE

This is a sexualized version of this popular game. Tonight, make sure you’re alone at home. After a nice, sexy, romantic dinner, turn down the lights, light some scented candles and play some soft, sexy music.

Take of all your clothes and sit across each other on the floor or bed, and then play the traditional Turn or Dare game. This time, however, only questions concerning sexual activities are allowed. Use this opportunity to really know your lover and help her bring out your sexual fantasies to life. For example, you can ask questions like “what public place would really like to try and have sex?”, “what sexual fantasy do you want to try tonight”?

BLINDFOLD ME

In this sex game, you’re blindfolded by your lover and she gets to put some lotion or scented oil all over your body. (Stuff like chocolate, honey, or whipped cream is also allowed.) She then starts to touch a part of your body with something (a feather, cotton ball, her tongue, etc.) and then you have to guess what she’s using to touch you. If you guess correctly, you can demand a sexual activity from her. If you guess wrong, she gets to ask a sexual activity from you.

THE ONE-NIGHT STAND

Role-playing is very much a part of many sex games. It’s a great way to break down any shyness on your or her part because a part of you thinks that it’s not really you engaging in that sexual act anyway. One favorite sex game of many couples is to role-play the one nigh stand affair.

Don’t plan this one. Just email, call or send a message to your partner that you plan to eat out tonight and if he/she can meet you at this pub or bar later. (You can decide to meet at a real sleazy bar.) Don’t give anything else away.

Once you meet at the pub, act like you’re someone else and try to ‘pick her up’ from the bar. If she’s game, she’ll easily pick up your hints and play along. Now, move on and DON’T go home. Go to a motel or hotel room and do the deed!

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1
Jun

A few hot “lingerie” ideas for your loved one!

Hi! Sarah here.

I know it’s not Valentines… or Christmas (as the video mentions).

However now is ALSO a great time to buy your loved one hot and sexy lingerie!

(Important: There´s NOTHING sexier for a woman than getting new lingerie from her lover! She will pay you back in a veeeery nice way, trust me.)

Let the sensual AMY show you some of the sexiest ideas. Just watch the video below.

So get yourself comfortable, and ENJOY! :)

Sarah

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12
May

Sexy “At Home” Dates…

You can add romance and passion to your lives and stay within the confines of your budget, too. With some creativity and imagination, you can prepare some special time for you and your partner without having to spend your children’s college tuition!

As most of these are at-home dates, make sure the premises are yours and yours alone. Pack the kids off for the evening with relatives or friendly neighbors (and don’t forget to let them know you’ll reciprocate).

Now it’s time to be together for your budget date. But with what you’ll do to one another, it won’t feel like a cheap date…

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Today’s Sexercise – Sexy ‘At Home’ Dates

Spend some time thinking about your date and planning for it. Maybe you’ll want to plan more than one date for the month. Whatever works with your lifestyle is fine.

What you will find, though, is that you don’t have to rob a bank (or be a wealthy banker, for that matter) to have a wonderful date with your lover.

Here are some suggestions for a hot, inexpensive good time.

1. Set a timer and slow dance with one another while naked. Add some fun to this by making it a game. For example, tell each other there will be no touching with hands until the music ends.

2. Make your lover a midnight snack and serve it in bed, using a tray with your best linen, plates and silverware. Make sure you’re naked when you serve it (remember – you’re the dessert).

3. Fasten around your lover’s waist a belt, length of fabric or part of an old shirt as tightly as you can. This feeling of being encased beneath clothing is highly arousing; and can lead to a great deal of anticipation of the evening to come.

4. Think about erotic gift certificates that will turn your partner on. This is a wonderful way to give – without spending any money! Some ideas include a year’s worth of sensual massage or a certificate offering to fulfill your lover’s deepest sexual fantasies for an entire evening.

5. Go to www.virtualflowers.com and send your lover a free virtual bouquet. Sign the card with a silly message like ‘Happy Arbor Day’ or ‘Happy Millard Fillmore’s Birthday’.

6. Along the ‘greeting card’ line, create your own homemade greeting card either on the computer or with scissors and paper. Inside the card, provide a hot and graphic description about what you plan to do with him or her during the night. Then the card into your partner’s lunch.

7. Dig out the Christmas lights and use them to light the bedroom.

8. Create an imaginary love potion from herb tea and flavorings. Tell your lover that drinking it makes you a love slave, committed to doing anything your ‘owner’ wishes. Or reverse roles by asking your lover to drink the potion and become your love slave.

9. Strip poker or strip rummy have been around forever, for a reason – they’re fun when it comes to love play. In this version, be sure to wear lots of clothes and strip them off slowly. This builds the anticipation as you reveal yourselves, inch by inch, to one another.

10. With your partner watching you, unplug the TV. Commit yourselves to an evening together, loving and being loved in all ways shapes and forms. Though this action sounds like a small thing, it really says a lot; namely that you’re willing to forgo external stimulation to give and receive pleasure.

11. Tune the clock radio to an easy-listening station and set it for 3:00 a.m. When it goes off, cuddle, snuggle and stroke; then see where it leads.

12. See how long you can tease your partner without him or her reaching orgasm. The effort not to come sometimes makes the sex all the more erotic. Try doing everything you can to drive your lover over the edge despite his or her best efforts.

13. Caress one another without using your hands. Women, use your breasts, feet and lips to turn him on. And men, your erect penis makes a fabulous tool for touching your lover without fingers.

14. Make a ‘Sex Partner Wanted’ ad and include all the things you’d really like your partner to do to you. Don’t be shy – this is the time to indulge in your wildest and hottest fantasies. Then let your lover pick one thing to do to you. Don’t forget to return the favor, though.

Basically, you don’t need a huge bank account to create a romantic, passionate date. It simply takes some ingenuity, creativity and a whole lot of willingness to indulge in some new ideas.

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5
May

Here’s 5 Naughty Ways to Flip Her Sex Switch

As far as women’s erogenous zones go, most men know that we just love having our breasts caressed. However, we women have many more areas that also enjoy being paid attention to. Learning where they are and how to pay useful attention to them will improve your lovemaking by leaps and bounds.

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5 (Unexpected) Ways to Flip Her Switch

Give her neck some lovin’.

The neck is a serious erogenous zone for women. It’s right up there with breasts. But I am not suggesting you give your lady a hickey. Those went out with the high school prom. (If you do make a mistake and give just a little too much lovin’ to her neck and she woman ends up with a hickey, apologize profusely. Most women do not find humor in this and won’t appreciate having to hide the obvious “love bite” for up to a week.)

When you give special attention to the neck, do it lovingly and gently and with passion. Kiss her entire neck tenderly, and don’t forget the area behind and under her ears. Start out kissing the area gently and when she seems to get into it, you can take your “necking” to the next stage and kiss and nibble a little harder.

Kiss and linger… on her lips.

That’s right. I said kiss her. If you are in a long-term relationship or you are married, you likely forget to kiss your partner during lovemaking. This is one of the chief complaints that women have. We love to kiss and men too often forget our lips when making love.

Start with the lips and vary the speed and energy of the kiss. You can kiss her tenderly and then passionately. Then stop kissing her lips and kiss her eyes, her nose, her cheeks. Come back to the lips and kiss her passionately again while moving your hands all over her body. Then stop moving your hands and kiss her with focused intensity.

Trust me – she’ll love this. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to another lovemaking activity.

Pay attention to her fingers and toes.

For some reason, fingers and toes are extremely sensitive to kissing and sucking. If you combine this with stimulation in other parts of the body, it can be incredibly erotic.

Some women may actually prevent you from kissing or sucking her toes but that’s probably because she got caught off guard and is now self-conscious. As such, try to have an intimate shower together first. This way, when you move on to lovemaking in bed and you try to pay attention to her toes, she won’t hesitate and let you do the naughty things you plan to do.

Don’t ignore her ears.

First of all, do NOT stick a hard tongue into her ear! Few women enjoy this, even though men often think women do. Instead, take advantage of the sensitive nature of ears and play around with them. They are ultra-sensitive to touch so some gentle caressing and nibbling is often all you need to do to increase her passions.

Start by using your fingers to gently play with her ears, massaging the outer area and the earlobes. Kiss her around her ears, behind her ears and just under her ears. Don’t be afraid to moan quietly or make other noises in her ears – most women find this a huge turn-on. Finally, exhale gently into her ear. The feeling of your warm breath on her ear, combined with gentle nibbling, will flip her switch into overdrive!

Ok, let’s go back to breasts.

I know I mentioned that you should go beyond breasts but on this section, I want to inform you on how else you can caress her breasts to get more passion out of her.

Sure, women’s breasts are quiet sensitive (which is good for seduction purposes) but she must be ready for your more vigorous touches before you actually start doing them. Because men enjoy playing with breasts and women often enjoy it too, breasts actually end up getting shortchanged.

Here’s what I mean – if you give her breasts too much attention too soon, it doesn’t feel good. Breasts are loaded with nerve endings and all women have the same amount of nerve endings, so those with small breasts and those with large breasts all have the same potential for arousal.

When you first begin playing with her breasts, use a delicate hand. Begin touching her so lightly it almost seems to you that you’re not touching her at all. But trust us – she feels it. Kiss her breast, but not the nipple area. Kiss and caress just her areola to begin with, and then the underside of her breast. Keep caressing and kissing and every now and then, pull away or stop. Keep her wanting for more before you finally indulge and take her nipple into your mouth/

There you have it – five ways to really light her fire. Now go put out that flame!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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22
Apr

The Worst Enemy in Bed:Performance Anxiety

Performance anxiety is commonly misinterpreted as “stage fright”, but there is a reason for it. It has been stated, that “the whole world is a stage” and we are willing or unwilling participants in it. Performing artists like musicians, singers, actors and speakers have faced this enemy during their careers and braved them one way or another.

But this enemy is very common in human relationships too and particularly ferocious when it comes to sex. Men face this enemy every time they are about to have sex and there is one reason which makes this anxiety almost unbearable: will I last long enough to satisfy my partner?

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How to Make Sure You Don’t Orgasm Before She Does

1. Prolong the foreplay.

Instead of plowing away once the sex really gets going, take your time to caress your partner and explore her body with your other extremities. While the male organ seems to be the only arousal point on a man’s body, women have these sensitive areas all over the place.

Her reaction to your probing will give you a fairly good idea where they are. While she approaches ecstasy with your every successful exploration, you not only learn your partner’s secret areas, but also preserve your own stamina for the final battle.

2. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what turns her on.

Conversation is a very important part of the whole sexual experience. This time though, you want to encourage her to tell you what REALLY turns her on. Clever sexual innuendos during pre-sex time and gentle inquiries during sex not only give you vital information, but stimulate your partner’s fantasy, which makes her hornier, which makes her reach her orgasm faster! Just before you reach your own…

3. Oral sex

Spicing things up by pleasuring or “heating up” your partner with oral stimulation gives you time to breath. While orally satisfying a woman is requiring a keen ear to your partner’s needs and leads, it may be the last resort for your premature curtain call. It is not a solution to “take a break” during sex. While it may help you, you probably will have to start with your partner from square one. Switching to oral sex gives you the needed break without interrupting your partner’s pleasure cruise.

4. Know your own body.

Japanese Geisha’s are known to be able to bring a man to ecstasy without having him prematurely end the fun. If they can do that, you can too IF you know your own body.

Knowing your body’s primary arousal points can help you last longer if you avoid… for now. Another trick is to squeeze the base of your shaft right before the Big Ben strikes ten on the top and the bottom side. If you do it right, it stops you cold.

A good physical condition is also helpful in enduring the physical task of keeping it up longer; do not underestimate your muscles’ participation in your endurance quest. Ask your partner to assist you in this self-discovery and sex will never get boring.

5. An honest and open relationship.

Tell your partner about your anxiety and let her know that you want to last longer to give her more pleasure. While this is most of the time not possible when you are in bed for the first time with a new partner, once you are an item and sex gets to be a somewhat regular pastime, honesty is the way to go.

6. If it all fails, do it again!

Leonardo Da Vinci’s first painting was not the Mona Lisa and even when he was painting the masterpiece he did not get it right the first time. Multiple layers have been discovered by x-ray technology procedures, documenting that even the Master himself needed several tries to get it right.

By exploring your own limits and practicing as often as you both feel like will lead to more confidence, more pleasure, more mutual acceptance and trust, and ultimately more endurance and better sex for both of you.

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10
Apr

Try These Sex Games Tonight!

I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

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Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. :) I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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3
Apr

The Art of Kissing

Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

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One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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Sarah

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14
Mar

Happy Easter with Libido Food to Turn Her On!

If it is politically correct to say diamonds are a woman’s best friend, would it be right to say that aphrodisiacs are a man’s best friend?

One of the biggest challenges for guys when it comes to sex is how to ensure that his woman is also in the mood for it. What usually happens is this: you want sex and she, for some reason, doesn’t. However, instead of getting sexually frustrated - or worse, try to force her! - why not enlist the help of a few aphrodisiacs?

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No need to go exotic and spend a gargantuan amount of money. Try these ‘natural’ aphrodisiacs to set her in the right mood without going through too much hassle.

Balut

Balut, the popular delicacy of most Filipinos, is actually a fertilized duck that has a developed embryo inside. The egg is boiled and is enjoyed with a pinch of salt and a couple of drops of vinegar. And because a lot of men testify to its astonishing effects, plus its affordability compared to other forms of aphrodisiacs, the balut has become a popular street food in Asian countries. However, thanks to the wonders of exports, you can probably find balut in any Asian grocery store near you.

If you don’t want to try this now, then don’t forget about it when you and your woman are on a trip in Asia. It’s worth a try!

Ginseng

Ginseng is a genus of 11 species of perennial plants with fleshy roots. They grow in China, Asia, Korea and Siberia. Normally, ginseng is used as nourishing stimulants and as treatment of Type II Diabetes. It’s also widely used in vitamins and food supplements for men. But since its discovery, only lately has its most significant use been adopted. That is, it’s undoubted role in men’s sexual prowess. In fact, according to a 2002 study, both Asian and American forms of ginseng markedly increased libido levels of animals, thus improving their sexual performance.

If your woman drinks a lot of tea already, then switching to one that is ginger-flavored is not a bad idea. A few dishes cooked with a lot of ginger is also nice. Just don’t serve a plateful of raw ginger! I assure you, any ‘hotness’ from this will not lead to sex!

Honey

Honey is a sweet viscous liquid that can actually bring sex performance to higher levels and make your “honey” beg you for more. Coming from the nectar of flowers, honey is a mixture mainly of sugars and other compounds like fructose and glucose. The nitric oxide in it is also known to open up blood vessels and stimulate erection. This may sound like an aphrodisiac for you rather than for her… but an obviously erect penis works wonders for us women as well!

Besides, honey can be ‘consumed’ in many ways right? So why not spread a bit of honey on your ‘honey’? Lick away! Lick away! Lick away!

Oats

Who says oats are only for dieters? Oats work as well in letting out the real man in you. Among the sources of aphrodisiacs, this is the most affordable one. In recent studies, the power of oats has been seen to significantly race the level of testosterone in men. Think it’s impossible? Try it!

Oysters

La Trelle Spencer in White Chicks said that oysters are an aphrodisiac. And yes it’s true! It’s been found that oysters are rich in certain amino acids that notably increase the levels of sex hormones. You may also want to add some spice to your oysters as spice can lead to increased heart rate and sometimes even sweating. These are responses similar to the ones you feel when you’re ‘getting it on’. So once you smell your honey cooking up some grilled oysters, you know what’s going to happen next!

Peanut Butter

Peanut butter lovers certainly will love to read this. This lovely snack can actually increase the desire for sex! It is rich in Vitamin B1 and Vitamin E, which is also called the “sexuality vitamin”.

And here’s a naughty tip you can try! Make sure your woman is sitting somewhere, say on the sofa, dinner chair, whatever! Then go ala Elvis and get a banana. Half-peel this and smear the top with peanut butter. No, position the half-peeled banana directly in front of your penis (and facing her face!). Approach your woman and, WITHOUT LAUGHING, ask her to taste your banana. If she doesn’t get horny from this, I don’t know what will!

Indeed, nature has everything to offer. What more could you ask for? Delicious aphrodisiac foods that are very affordable. All you have to do is learn these tricks and remember that hot sex doesn’t depend on how much aphrodisiac you eat but in the love that you put in it.

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10
Mar

Lights… camera… action!

Hi all!

It´s finally 2008, I´m so excited about 2008. :)

Today I´ll give you some tips to spend a VERY sensual evening with your partner.

It´s called “lights… camera… action!”

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Because the idea is to take advantage of the technology we have today (such as digital cameras) to enjoy some sexy moments together.

So let´s get started!

1. Grab your video camera and make your own porno movie together. I recommend creating a title for the movie and a story. Don´t just have sex in front of a camera! Create a story first, and then act it…

2. Get a few costumes to make your porno movie even more sensual. For example, try roles like: CEO of a company, secretary, soldier, prostitute, etc.

3. Another great technique is to videotape yourselves having sex. Just have sex as usual. And then watch the movie together to see what you both like and what you´re doing wrong. (It will help both of you improve your sex skills!)

4. Finally I recommend preparing a romantic dinner together, grab a bottle of red wine, a few candles and… enjoy your sensual movies together!

Enjoy! :)

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26
Feb

Know Her Hot Buttons

This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

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And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

So do you know your woman’s sweet sex spots? Here’s a quick rundown of what they may likely be and what you can do to it during a sexual massage.

Her Breasts.

Ok, her breasts may not be a big erogenous zone secret for you but do you know how to handle them properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts. And more so during sexual massage! So what do you do?

First of all, remember that the goal of a sexual massage is to de-stress while heightening sexual desire. So the general rule is to handle her body with TLC (tender loving care).

When it comes to her breasts, this is what you should do during your sexual massage session: avoid putting your whole hand over her breast. Using your index fingers, lightly press on her nipples as you would press a sensitive buzzer. First use dry fingers, then lick your index fingers and push down again.

The fact that she does not feel anything except your index finger on her nipple will send shivers through her body! And because you’re not touching her anywhere else (avoid any other body contact), her body is still in total relaxation (while her mind is already advancing towards sex).

Now, after about 10 ‘finger presses’, very lightly lick her nipple. Do not overdo this, just give her butterfly licks. After about 10 licks on each breast, stop and go to other hot zones.

Her Armpit.

Another erogenous zone is her armpit. Lick this during the sexual massage and she will feel delirious and lustful! To make sure that this is not unpleasant for you. Prepare a wet, hot towel before you start the sexual massage and use it to wipe her armpit before you start licking gently.

Do the ‘Dip’

From her upper torso, gently move towards sexually massaging her by doing “The Dip”. Put her arms above her head then position your arms under her shoulder (as if you were embracing her in bed). This position will ‘open’ her body to you. Breathe warmly against her collarbone, kiss the side of each breast and then position your tongue between her breasts.

From this position, lick her all the way down, passing her stomach, belly button, belly and then ending with a quick ‘dip’ in her genitals!

Her Foot.

This is the proper position when you start focusing on her feet: have her bend her knees and spread her legs a bit. This vulnerable position will already bring images of sex to her mind. You then kneel between her legs and lift one of her legs so that you can massage her foot. Put a lot of warm, massage oil on your hands and then slowly knead her feet. At the end of your massage, breathe against the sole of her feet. Your warm breath will both relax and sexually stimulate her.

Her Toes.

Toes are often neglected erogenous zones! The proper way to sexually massage toes is this: clean off any oil on and between her toes with a soft, wet and warm towel. Hold her big toe, run your thumb against its sole (out a bit of pressure) and follow through with a quick like. Do this for each toe. The next step is to slowly and seductively suck each toe!

Her Butt.

Have your woman lie on her back. Put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her ass, kneading lightly. After this, progress to kissing them and licking them. And then just when she’s so relaxed, comfortable or maybe even about to drift off, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her a sexual charge like no other!

Proceed to licking her crack and when you notice that she’s getting too excited. Turn her over and let the love-making begin!

The fact that you’re bodies are both slick from the massage oil and glistening in the dark makes love-making even more exciting.

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