Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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Sarah

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This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

So do you know your woman’s sweet sex spots? Here’s a quick rundown of what they may likely be and what you can do to it during a sexual massage.

Her Breasts.

Ok, her breasts may not be a big erogenous zone secret for you but do you know how to handle them properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts. And more so during sexual massage! So what do you do?

First of all, remember that the goal of a sexual massage is to de-stress while heightening sexual desire. So the general rule is to handle her body with TLC (tender loving care).

When it comes to her breasts, this is what you should do during your sexual massage session: avoid putting your whole hand over her breast. Using your index fingers, lightly press on her nipples as you would press a sensitive buzzer. First use dry fingers, then lick your index fingers and push down again.

The fact that she does not feel anything except your index finger on her nipple will send shivers through her body! And because you’re not touching her anywhere else (avoid any other body contact), her body is still in total relaxation (while her mind is already advancing towards sex).

Now, after about 10 ‘finger presses’, very lightly lick her nipple. Do not overdo this, just give her butterfly licks. After about 10 licks on each breast, stop and go to other hot zones.

Her Armpit.

Another erogenous zone is her armpit. Lick this during the sexual massage and she will feel delirious and lustful! To make sure that this is not unpleasant for you. Prepare a wet, hot towel before you start the sexual massage and use it to wipe her armpit before you start licking gently.

Do the ‘Dip’

From her upper torso, gently move towards sexually massaging her by doing “The Dip”. Put her arms above her head then position your arms under her shoulder (as if you were embracing her in bed). This position will ‘open’ her body to you. Breathe warmly against her collarbone, kiss the side of each breast and then position your tongue between her breasts.

From this position, lick her all the way down, passing her stomach, belly button, belly and then ending with a quick ‘dip’ in her genitals!

Her Foot.

This is the proper position when you start focusing on her feet: have her bend her knees and spread her legs a bit. This vulnerable position will already bring images of sex to her mind. You then kneel between her legs and lift one of her legs so that you can massage her foot. Put a lot of warm, massage oil on your hands and then slowly knead her feet. At the end of your massage, breathe against the sole of her feet. Your warm breath will both relax and sexually stimulate her.

Her Toes.

Toes are often neglected erogenous zones! The proper way to sexually massage toes is this: clean off any oil on and between her toes with a soft, wet and warm towel. Hold her big toe, run your thumb against its sole (out a bit of pressure) and follow through with a quick like. Do this for each toe. The next step is to slowly and seductively suck each toe!

Her Butt.

Have your woman lie on her back. Put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her ass, kneading lightly. After this, progress to kissing them and licking them. And then just when she’s so relaxed, comfortable or maybe even about to drift off, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her a sexual charge like no other!

Proceed to licking her crack and when you notice that she’s getting too excited. Turn her over and let the love-making begin!

The fact that you’re bodies are both slick from the massage oil and glistening in the dark makes love-making even more exciting.

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I know you don’t need convincing that lasting longer in bed is a great idea. But please be aware that you can’t experience the kind of ecstatic wave you´ve always wanted if you rush headlong towards orgasm or try to hold yourself back.

You have to learn to RELAX into intense pleasure in order to go higher and higher.

Guys argue all the time about their confused idea that Tantra means not cumming. It doesn’t have to be that way or any way.

When you learn to go higher and higher, the simultaneous orgasm with your partner will be incredible. More importantly, when the ecstasy of the ride is greater than the brief spurt at the end, you may never want to cum again.

But won’t it be nice when it’s YOUR choice and you can decide to squirt or not as the mood strikes you?

The Disadvantages of When Your Penis is the Boss

Maybe it’s not needed anymore. Maybe the mere idea of lasting longer in bed and experiencing the pleasures of sex for HOURS and not mere minutes is enough to convince you that ‘cumming on command’ is better than cumming involuntarily.

But in the slight chance that you’re still not convinced, here’s what you LOSE cumming too quickly…

- Many women are multi-orgasmic because their energy isn’t depleted by orgasm. You don’t want to cum and be ‘finished’ and leave her yearning for more do you?

- Many men’s erections don’t spring back to life after cumming. For older men, it sometimes takes a couple days to recover their ability to stay hard for long. Sex therapists call this the “refractory period”. So having an orgasm without ejaculating lets you repeat lovemaking as quickly and often as you want.

- Many men release lots of energy when they cum which makes them distant, sleepy, and exhausted. Don’t cum and you stay energetic throughout the night!

- Many men lose the desire to continue making love when they blow their wad, suddenly losing that closeness and intimacy women crave. Some describe it as if a power switch was turned off.

- Many men shut down not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well, cutting off the communion at multiple levels that this e-course can help you achieve.

The Benefits of ‘Cumming-on-Command’

And just to leave you with the positive aspects, by not cumming you can…

- Experience HOURS of orgasmic pleasure instead of just a few seconds of intense release.

- Undergo continuous ecstasy at its peak throughout your whole body.

- Stay connected with your partner longer, deeper, and at various levels.

- Keep your entire body energized. (The Taoists believe that retaining your semen is highly nourishing and the key to longevity!)

- Fully satisfy your partner’s often unfulfilled sexual desires.

- Satisfy multiple partners one after the other without a break.

- Promote health, vigor, and mental clarity by retaining your energy.

- Achieve bigger, stronger, longer-lasting orgasms when you finally choose to cum.

Wow! Just going over the list turns me on!

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Hi everyone! Sarah here…

Here´s a cool tip for the weekend:

Get a cold drink… (well, two… one for your girl).

Then tell her to pose for you! Be as CREATIVE as possible! (her main goal is to be as sensual as possible!)

But you MUST take pictures or video!

Trust me… after doing this your desire will increase 398% and you will have a great night together!

Here´s a quick video to show you what I mean… Enjoy!

Have a great weekend!

Sarah

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There are lots of different ways to spice up your sex life and they don’t have to be tedious relationship-building exercises. Instead, start playing some sex games which will not only add some flavor to your sex life, but it will also be a fun way to experiment with new sexual activities. It will add spontaneity to your sex life and you may end up doing things that you never even imagined possible!

Body Painting

If you are looking for sensual fun, then body painting is a great idea. Besides being naked, you get to rub sticky, slippery stuff all over each other’s bodies. What’s more fun than that?

Basically, you and your partner get naked and you paint each other’s bodies using just about anything you want. Adult stores will have different materials to use as paints – anything from strawberry-flavored body paint to chocolate body paint.
Or, you can just use what you’ve got around your home. Get out the chocolate sauce and peanut butter to create a sticky, sexy masterpiece on your partner. When you are done, you can eat it off! Just make sure that you’ve got old bed sheets on the bed or floor to make for easy clean-up later on.

Strip Poker

This is a classic sex game for couples and with good reason. There’s nothing quite like beating your partner at a game of cards and then with each winning hand, forcing them to slowly and sensually undress right before your eyes. To make the game more exciting, make sure that you are both wearing really sexy undergarments – that way, even if she gets you naked before you get her naked, you can still enjoy the lacy underwear show. To add an extra level of excitement, invite another couple over to play the game with you. The idea of seeing your buddy’s girlfriend naked and vice versa is sure to be extra stimulating.

Pretend You’re Meeting For The First Time

Get dressed up – she should look hot in a low cut dress and you should try your best to look dashing as well. Think James Bond and you should get the look right. Then, head to a classy bar. You should enter first, and have a drink at the bar. Let everyone admire you as you stand there drinking your martini shaken, not stirred.
When she enters, everyone’s eyes will be drawn to her automatically and she will pretend not to know you. She’ll seat herself at the bar and order a drink, and that’s when you will approach her. Of course, she will play hard to get and every other guy in the place will be dying to give her a try after you have struck out.
After some time, the two of you should engage in a lusty lip lock in front of everyone, which will make this role playing game even more fun. Everyone will wonder how the two of you hooked up so quickly, and then you can leave together, go back to your place, and go at it like bunnies.

Install A Stripper Pole In Your Place

You might not want the stripper pole to be the centerpiece of your home, but if you can install it in a place where all of your guests won’t immediately see it, you won’t regret it! Your partner will want to show you that the strippers you and your buddies check out at the bars have nothing on her, and you should take her up on that offer. Get out your favorite tunes and have her demonstrate her stripping skills for you. For more fun, have your hands tied behind your back so that you can’t reach out and indulge yourself. Let her tease you until you are ready to explode.

Make A Scavenger Hunt For Your Partner

In secret, make a scavenger hunt for your partner. Then, place the clues throughout your place. Make sure that with each clue, your partner has to either remove an item of clothing or put on a sexy piece of lingerie. You can also involve the use of sex toys, lubricants and other
sexy toys.
For example, have her start out by moving from clue to clue removing the clothes she is currently wearing. Then, when she’s naked, and you’ve had the opportunity to observe her naked body for a while, let her continue the hunt. She can then dress up in the sexy lingerie you’ve hidden for her. When that’s over, let her find the vibrating dildo you’ve hidden and order her to start using it on herself. Once you get to this part of the scavenger hunt, you can just join in for a night of fun.

Have A Sexy Reading Night

Pick up some racy books that you and your partner will get turned on by. Then, get naked under the covers and start reading each other steamy passages from the book. As you read, start touching each other and yourselves. Let her keep reading her favorite passages and try to act out everything she is reading. Before she gets to the climax part of the book she is reading, you will be able to throw your book aside and just continue on your own.

Getting Started With Sex Games

Most of these sex games are pretty simple and you don’t need a lot of tools or imagination to make them work. All you need are two willing partners and since you are reading this article, you are probably interested already. That just leaves her to be convinced that sex games will be fun and a turn on. If she’s a skeptic, start with simple things like the scavenger hunt game or the body paint game. If you start by asking her to dance like a stripper for you, she might feel shy and turned off. Break her into these games easily and before you know it, she’ll be making up her own games too!

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One of the biggest misconceptions people have about female orgasms is that they are all created equal. The truth is that not all orgasms are the same: they may all be equally pleasurable but they are generally arrived at through different means.
Basically, there are two types of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral.

Today, we’re going to briefly discuss both types.

Vaginal Orgasm

This type of orgasm was the only type Freud and other men of his time felt to be legitimate types of sexual pleasure for women to experience. Unfortunately for women, only about 20% can receive an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The other 80% need something a little extra.

Before we get into that, let me explain exactly what we mean by vaginal orgasm. A vaginal orgasm occurs solely because of stimulation of the vagina. That stimulation is usually in the form of the thrusting of the male penis during vaginal intercourse.

The reason most women do not receive an orgasm just from penetration is that the vagina is not a highly sensitive area. This is actually a good thing. Remember that the vagina is not just used for sex but also for delivering babies. If the inside walls of the vagina were made up of concentrated nerve endings like we find in the nipple, the clitoris, or the penis, then childbirth would be even more difficult for women.

In fact, only the first two inches of the vagina are sensitive at all.

So why do some women have orgasms solely from vaginal stimulation?

The answer is they probably aren’t. Women who report vaginal orgasms benefit from their anatomy. In some women, the labia minora are formed in such a way that vaginal penetration actually causes the labia to rub against or gently pull on the clitoris.

This, not vaginal stimulation, is leading to the orgasm in most cases. Technically, however, this would still be considered a vaginal orgasm because there is not direct stimulation of the clitoris.

Another reason why some women report having vaginal orgasms is that the shape of the penis and their preferred position allow for stimulation of the G-spot. Because the G-spot is linked to increased pleasure and may also induce orgasms, this is another possibility worth considering.

The bottom line here though is that vaginal orgasms are not common. Men and women need to realize that penetration is often not going to be enough to accomplish the goal. The good news is that gives both partners an excuse to experiment with some new things and ideas!

Clitoral Orgasm

By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. First, let me share with you some information about the clitoris.

The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.

Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.

The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.

With that said, it’s important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.

What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman’s body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.

Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we’ll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.

Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it’s usually not the most satisfactory approach.

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.

And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

So, bottom line: Please understand: there is NOTHING wrong if your woman requires clitoral stimulation besides penetration to reach an orgasm. And actually, it IS more fun!

Once you understand this fact, you´ll both start to get more “creative” in bed. And trust me, she will NOT be frustrated anymore!

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