I always tell my clients that a hot stone set for a hot stone massage is a great relationship investment! It’s a very relaxing ritual that you can perform on each other; and it also makes for great bonding time.

Anyway, with today’s hectic lifestyles, we all need a good massage every now and then right? But what if we combine a hot stone massage and a sexual massage? Wouldn’t that be a relaxing, yet seductive way to pleasure your partner? Of course it would be!

How to Prepare a Sexual Hot Stone Massage

First off, you need a hot stone set. These stones come in different sizes and are meant to be used on different parts of the body. For instance, small stones can go between the toes while bigger ones can massage the legs. Even bigger one can be used for the back and front torso.

If budget is a concern, then buy a second-hand hot stone massage set. There are plenty online you can have delivered to your doorstep.

Of course, you would also have to prepare the ‘setting’ or massage room. It doesn’t have to be super fancy. One of my subscribers once mentioned that they never indulge in massages because they don’t have a massage table. Oh please! If there’s a will, there’s a way!

You can just drape towels on your bed and let that be the massage bed if you’re concerned about ruining your bed sheets. Some of my clients even prefer the bedroom floor! Just make sure you put a lot of thick, warm blankets on the floor and put tons of pillows!

As for the hot stones themselves, ensure that they are heated just to the right temperature. (Hot stone massage sets should come with a heater.) You wouldn’t want them to be too hot that you can’t hold them or that they scald your partner’s skin.

Of course, massage oil, music and lighting scented candles are a given. Here’s a tip: put the massage oil in the heater as well so that it’s warm too when you use it on your partner’s body.

Also, make sure the temperature in the room is warm as you should also be naked during the massage.

Sexual Hot Stone Massage Techniques

Ask your partner to lie down on her belly. Put a shawl or thin sheet over her back and lay a couple of hot stones on top of it, outlining her whole spine.

Now put some of that warm massage oil on your hands and rub her back legs. Grab two hot stones (one for each of your hands) and start massaging her legs. This will make her feel very warmed and relaxed.

Naughty tip 1: As you massage her back legs, nudge her legs apart bit by bit. Continue to massage her upper thighs, letting your warm and slick fingers brush against the back of her vagina.

Naughty tip 2: With the warm hot stones still in your hands, massage her buttocks. Massage in such a way that her bum cheeks are pulled slightly apart. Once her crack is exposed, lick her with your warm tongue.

Massage her feet and end by placing small hot stones between her toes.

Remove the hot stones outlining her spine and the sheet covering her back. Straddle her legs and massage her back with a new set of warmed hot stones. Massage her while letting your erect penis graze or lightly jab at her ass.

End the body massage with a body caress. Lean forward onto your partner and sensuously slide your body from side to side against her body. Rub your chest against her back and press your erect penis against her ass.

Do some very slight ‘push ups’ too. Simply raise yourself on your toes and arms and then slowly lower your whole body again on top of hers. After this, ask her to turn on her back.

Massage her front legs and feet with a new set of warm hot stones. Move to her upper torso, lavishing it with a generous amount of warm massage oil. Massage using a new set of warm hot stones.

Naughty tip 3: This is called ‘hot and cold’. Take a sip of VERY cold water or put a small ice chip in your mouth. Using your hands and the hot stones you’re holding, enclose one of her breasts, making sure her nipples are facing you. Lick or gently suck on her nipple.
The warmth of the hot stones on the sides of her breast combined with the coldness she feels on her nipples will both shock, please and maker her horny! Now the same on the other breast.

End the sexual massage by doing the ‘body caress’ again. This time will be even more exciting because you’re facing her!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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I want you to give your loved one a VERY sensual massage… But promise me that it will ONLY be a massage (nothing else!), if you know what I mean…

Why?

Because after a very intense week I want you to be completely prepared (physically and mentally) for Lovemaking.

I found a video that will help you with some great ideas for your sensual massage. I’m sure you will enjoy it…

Enjoy!

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As far as women’s erogenous zones go, most men know that we just love having our breasts caressed. However, we women have many more areas that also enjoy being paid attention to. Learning where they are and how to pay useful attention to them will improve your lovemaking by leaps and bounds.

5 (Unexpected) Ways to Flip Her Switch

Give her neck some lovin’.

The neck is a serious erogenous zone for women. It’s right up there with breasts. But I am not suggesting you give your lady a hickey. Those went out with the high school prom. (If you do make a mistake and give just a little too much lovin’ to her neck and she woman ends up with a hickey, apologize profusely. Most women do not find humor in this and won’t appreciate having to hide the obvious “love bite” for up to a week.)

When you give special attention to the neck, do it lovingly and gently and with passion. Kiss her entire neck tenderly, and don’t forget the area behind and under her ears. Start out kissing the area gently and when she seems to get into it, you can take your “necking” to the next stage and kiss and nibble a little harder.

Kiss and linger… on her lips.

That’s right. I said kiss her. If you are in a long-term relationship or you are married, you likely forget to kiss your partner during lovemaking. This is one of the chief complaints that women have. We love to kiss and men too often forget our lips when making love.

Start with the lips and vary the speed and energy of the kiss. You can kiss her tenderly and then passionately. Then stop kissing her lips and kiss her eyes, her nose, her cheeks. Come back to the lips and kiss her passionately again while moving your hands all over her body. Then stop moving your hands and kiss her with focused intensity.

Trust me – she’ll love this. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to another lovemaking activity.

Pay attention to her fingers and toes.

For some reason, fingers and toes are extremely sensitive to kissing and sucking. If you combine this with stimulation in other parts of the body, it can be incredibly erotic.

Some women may actually prevent you from kissing or sucking her toes but that’s probably because she got caught off guard and is now self-conscious. As such, try to have an intimate shower together first. This way, when you move on to lovemaking in bed and you try to pay attention to her toes, she won’t hesitate and let you do the naughty things you plan to do.

Don’t ignore her ears.

First of all, do NOT stick a hard tongue into her ear! Few women enjoy this, even though men often think women do. Instead, take advantage of the sensitive nature of ears and play around with them. They are ultra-sensitive to touch so some gentle caressing and nibbling is often all you need to do to increase her passions.

Start by using your fingers to gently play with her ears, massaging the outer area and the earlobes. Kiss her around her ears, behind her ears and just under her ears. Don’t be afraid to moan quietly or make other noises in her ears – most women find this a huge turn-on. Finally, exhale gently into her ear. The feeling of your warm breath on her ear, combined with gentle nibbling, will flip her switch into overdrive!

Ok, let’s go back to breasts.

I know I mentioned that you should go beyond breasts but on this section, I want to inform you on how else you can caress her breasts to get more passion out of her.

Sure, women’s breasts are quiet sensitive (which is good for seduction purposes) but she must be ready for your more vigorous touches before you actually start doing them. Because men enjoy playing with breasts and women often enjoy it too, breasts actually end up getting shortchanged.

Here’s what I mean – if you give her breasts too much attention too soon, it doesn’t feel good. Breasts are loaded with nerve endings and all women have the same amount of nerve endings, so those with small breasts and those with large breasts all have the same potential for arousal.

When you first begin playing with her breasts, use a delicate hand. Begin touching her so lightly it almost seems to you that you’re not touching her at all. But trust us – she feels it. Kiss her breast, but not the nipple area. Kiss and caress just her areola to begin with, and then the underside of her breast. Keep caressing and kissing and every now and then, pull away or stop. Keep her wanting for more before you finally indulge and take her nipple into your mouth/

There you have it – five ways to really light her fire. Now go put out that flame!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

So do you know your woman’s sweet sex spots? Here’s a quick rundown of what they may likely be and what you can do to it during a sexual massage.

Her Breasts.

Ok, her breasts may not be a big erogenous zone secret for you but do you know how to handle them properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts. And more so during sexual massage! So what do you do?

First of all, remember that the goal of a sexual massage is to de-stress while heightening sexual desire. So the general rule is to handle her body with TLC (tender loving care).

When it comes to her breasts, this is what you should do during your sexual massage session: avoid putting your whole hand over her breast. Using your index fingers, lightly press on her nipples as you would press a sensitive buzzer. First use dry fingers, then lick your index fingers and push down again.

The fact that she does not feel anything except your index finger on her nipple will send shivers through her body! And because you’re not touching her anywhere else (avoid any other body contact), her body is still in total relaxation (while her mind is already advancing towards sex).

Now, after about 10 ‘finger presses’, very lightly lick her nipple. Do not overdo this, just give her butterfly licks. After about 10 licks on each breast, stop and go to other hot zones.

Her Armpit.

Another erogenous zone is her armpit. Lick this during the sexual massage and she will feel delirious and lustful! To make sure that this is not unpleasant for you. Prepare a wet, hot towel before you start the sexual massage and use it to wipe her armpit before you start licking gently.

Do the ‘Dip’

From her upper torso, gently move towards sexually massaging her by doing “The Dip”. Put her arms above her head then position your arms under her shoulder (as if you were embracing her in bed). This position will ‘open’ her body to you. Breathe warmly against her collarbone, kiss the side of each breast and then position your tongue between her breasts.

From this position, lick her all the way down, passing her stomach, belly button, belly and then ending with a quick ‘dip’ in her genitals!

Her Foot.

This is the proper position when you start focusing on her feet: have her bend her knees and spread her legs a bit. This vulnerable position will already bring images of sex to her mind. You then kneel between her legs and lift one of her legs so that you can massage her foot. Put a lot of warm, massage oil on your hands and then slowly knead her feet. At the end of your massage, breathe against the sole of her feet. Your warm breath will both relax and sexually stimulate her.

Her Toes.

Toes are often neglected erogenous zones! The proper way to sexually massage toes is this: clean off any oil on and between her toes with a soft, wet and warm towel. Hold her big toe, run your thumb against its sole (out a bit of pressure) and follow through with a quick like. Do this for each toe. The next step is to slowly and seductively suck each toe!

Her Butt.

Have your woman lie on her back. Put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her ass, kneading lightly. After this, progress to kissing them and licking them. And then just when she’s so relaxed, comfortable or maybe even about to drift off, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her a sexual charge like no other!

Proceed to licking her crack and when you notice that she’s getting too excited. Turn her over and let the love-making begin!

The fact that you’re bodies are both slick from the massage oil and glistening in the dark makes love-making even more exciting.

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